I told my friend that I liked him. (read below)?

Question

Well I told my friend that I liked him and he didn't reply cuz in the message I said that you didn't need to reply. But I want to know his reaction. And my friend has been talking to him on e-mail and he won't bring up the subject. How can I know his reaction. Or do you think I should wait. School starts in a week and I want to know if he likes me cuz at school it seems like he does. And in one e-mail he sounded like he liked me but I wasn't sure so I made the first move. And now i'm starting to regret it. I'm only 14 and i'm really confused. So can you please not write any stupid answers.

Answer 1

he probly does not know what to say cause he likes you!!

Answer 2

I did the same thing, and when he didn't reply, I took it that he didn't feel the same and then when we went back to school, I got confronted but I told him it didn't matter and we could still be friends. Even though it wasn't the way I wanted, we became even closer. Don't regret it and don't hide it. In the movies, when a guy tells a girl he likes her, he doesn't try to hide it. You made a bold and powerful move. It shows how confident you are in yourself.

If he doesn't talk to you before school starts, call him over the weekend and talk to him, make sure you are on the same page before school starts.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

You're still in your learning period sweetheart. He's going to break you're heart and it will probably happen a few more times before you learn what to look for in a man. One big thing to look for is mutual attraction. It just doesn't sound like he's very interested in you otherwise he would have jumped at the oppertunity to ask you out.

Sorry, but I don't think it's worth the chase. You're only going to end up stretching the pain out into an emotional fiasco if you continue to persue this and you will probably get your feelings hurt.

Try to remember to be strong and try to look at the situation as if you weren't even involved. It seems so much easier to think through your problems when you can detach yourself from the emotions that the situation brings forth.

Answer 4

Hi there, i guess i know how ur feeling rite now.and kudos to u for being brave enough to tell the truth to him.hey im 25 and nope i never have the courage to do that ever to my crush...my advise? just give him some time and space..dont initiate any contact for now,just wait till the school reopens..by then u wll have chances to see him and from tht u can gauge his response to ur message.maybe hes using this holiday to think about it first so just give him the space and dont rush him into making a decision..if in school he keep avoiding then i take it a sign that maybe hes arent tht interested in u as u hope he will...but if hes started to give favourable responses like alwasy finding chances to talk to u then hey gal u succeed.anyway dont forget ur 14 n studies do come first as ur priority ok..love is something tht should make both of u work even harder for the betterment of life and future...good luck gal

Answer 5

I will try not to give you a stupid answer. You told him not to reply so he is just doing what you asked him to do .So what you need to do is 1) tell him you would like to know how he feels2)or use a mutual friend to ask him flat out about his feelings.Since school starts in a week, it appears you have to move fast. One more thing.Although you did not ask , I want you to remember that you are only14, and to act in an appropriate manner and fashion.I wish you the best.

Answer 6

I'd say go for it! You'll never know unless you try...and you'll regret not trying to talk to him more than if you suffer a few moments of embarassment...if it's new to you...explain that to him, and you weren't sure how to ask. I walked up to my crush of 2 years...I was 14 and he was 16...I crushed on him until I was 16 and he was 18...now I'm 27 and married to him! He asked me what took me so long to tell him I liked him...I wish I wouldn't have wasted those 2 years! So give it a try...and honestly, if he's your friend, that's SO much better...then you at least have a REASON to talk to him. Give it a try! Good luck!

Answer 7

Wait for the guy to come to you. If he really likes you, he'll make the move. If you come at him and he doesn't have any reaction whatsoever, it's not worth it. All you can do now is wait. You don't want to push the guy to his limits. You don't want to force an answer out of him. Doing that might encourage him to stop talking to you. It might turn him off. So just yourself and be patient. He'll come around.

Answer 8

I think that was pretty brave of you to do that. But maybe he doesn't feel the same way. Otherwise, he's just feeling a little surprised and can't sink that info in yet. Just give him some time. He'll probably tell you sooner or later when school starts.

Answer 9

If you wanted to know, you shouldn't have told him not to reply! At the risk of sounding stupid...Duh!

The only real way to find out is to talk to him in person. Waffling about in the dark will get you nowhere. Alternatively, tell him that it's really bothering you to not know, and if he'd just tell you, you'd stop bothering him.

Don't get all your friends to bug him about it, it will only make him mad.

Answer 10

The only important here is that he likes you too, so you just wait a bit to see how things go but let him know that you still like him or else he can fly away. Good luck

Answer 11

OMG! I have the same problem except I'm 11 (almost 12) and my friends asked him if he thought i was cute at the pool at camp like, ultra randomly! A lot of times, guys are too embarrased to answer, so they'll just blush, shrug it off, and pretend it never happened. When it happened to me, he smiled, blushed, and didn't say a word. You can't expect a guy to really answer a question like that. if he wants to move on, move on too and pretend it never happened. maybe he really does like you and he probably does. when guys do that, it's code for "hell yeah but I'm never gonna say it!" xoxo-Lizzi♥