Family & Relationships - 12 August 2007

is it right ? see, my friend's broke. and she only have $100 to work with to buy new clothes for back to school. sh eonly has like 10 outfits in her closet which would never be enough for school. and i guess you can say her parents would eventually ask for the $100 since they're kinda broke too. is it alright if she spent the $100 on clothes instead of giving it to her parents ?

p.s

my friend's family isnt poor. but kinda in debt at this point.

2007-08-12 13:06:47 · 7 answers · asked by Live it Up 1 in Friends

What did you do about it? If not, what advice would u give parents to explain to the child what the heck u guys were doing dancing horizontally with your clothes off?

2007-08-12 13:05:57 · 1 answers · asked by enygma 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you?

2007-08-12 13:01:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or not so experienced?
I'm not talking completely en-experienced girls, but girls that "haven't gotten around" as much.
Do you enjoy being able to teach a girl a thing or two?
Just curious. I like to be with experienced guys, but wondered if it was the same for guys or not.

2007-08-12 12:59:48 · 15 answers · asked by LiL' Momma 4 in Singles & Dating

I know i'll get replies off people saying that it's a piece of piss, and to be honest it did used to be for me, but since giving up drinking 18 months ago, I dont go to pubs/clubs etc and there just doesn't seem to be many single women around my way!

2007-08-12 12:59:17 · 15 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Singles & Dating

The most unique thing I've ever seen at a wedding was a candy buffet (I know this is becoming increasingly popular) but at the time it was sooo WOW! People couldn't stay away, including myself!!

2007-08-12 12:58:40 · 6 answers · asked by truelovernr1122 3 in Weddings

well i did this before and i put in wat i look like, brown hair yellowy browny greeny coloured eyes and i put that i weighed about 40 but i went on the scales and i found out that it about 50 to 55 sorry about giving you the rong info. any way i love horse ridding and little dogs. i dont like skool that much, owww and im turning 15 in about 27 days

2007-08-12 12:56:48 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...A: Let him do it without complaint, and annoint his feet...?

B. Let him do it, but not let him have any Cha Cha that evening?...or

C. Crucify him, and watch "Dancing With The Stars" anyway...?

2007-08-12 12:54:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Meaning her stomach sticks farther than her booty do. What do I do because I am not very attracted to her?

2007-08-12 12:53:27 · 20 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I had the vacuum cleaner in my closet; that was what my dad was looking for at the time. When he was taking to long to bring it out, I went into my room to find it was pulling out my boyfriends cloths, hats, etc that I had in there;BTW; a spare wallet which I knew, w/ condoms which I had no clue.

He knows there were my bf's because my brother can't wear sizes like that and had snooped and found pictures of him (the most shirt off only) in my backpack/phone which he was mad then. He's seen him in person and has done the whole bark and growl.

Now he thinks were havin' sex throughout the house, so NO guy, not even my gay guy friends can come over; He took my phone; took my door/hinges, and saids he'll be installing a GPS on the car. Mind you that I'm 16 3/4, never had sex in the house or anywhere for that matter. I'm an overall good student and child! My mom trust me and would never extent this.

How can I convince him to stop overreacting on top of the natural fatherly protection?

2007-08-12 12:53:21 · 5 answers · asked by ~Diz Iz Why Im Hot~ 1 in Family

2007-08-12 12:52:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do these folks live in a different wourld than I do?

At 16, I was not asked to do something, I was told to do it and it was done out of respect for my parents. When I became a father my kid's did the things that they were told to do, too.

What's the big deal about getting teenagers to do what they are told?

2007-08-12 12:52:22 · 18 answers · asked by proficient 1 in Family

I'm 25 years old and moved out of my parents house.I never been interested in learning on how to cook until now.Started dating a guy and i want to impress him but i can't cook.Guys does turn you off when a girl can't cook?? Ladies at what age did start cooking a real meal ??(not spaghetti)

2007-08-12 12:48:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 13,000 songs in my computer which have taken years to buy and aquire (CD's) and download (legally), rip and organize. Now I have some very good friends who are getting interested in Ipods and are expecting me to load up their new Ipods with my full library that has taken years to put together. These are my best friends, and I need to be very careful about how I deal with this. It is not so much the legal/ethical concerns, but the fact that I am simply protective of all the money and work I have spent preparing my digital music library, and now they expect it all for free in one afternoon. Need some advice in how to deal?

2007-08-12 12:48:03 · 6 answers · asked by Steve M 1 in Friends

So Im going to be having a new room mate and the thing is I dont know how to let him know I dont want to have to deal with a bunch of parties at the house. Im a very low key type of person and Im not saying that he can never have people over I just want to make sure it wont be a every night thing. Is it even my place to say since he will be paying half the rent. The lease will be under both our names.

2007-08-12 12:47:42 · 3 answers · asked by Tess 2 in Friends

Well after 7 years of marriage, I finally got my inlaws video of my wedding which I had never seen! Well, on the video my hubby's uncle was the cameraman. He was "interviewing" friends and family before the wedding and asking if they had any words of advice for us... all my family and friends said things like "congratulations!" and "I'm so happy for you!" ; words of encouragement. Whenever someone on hubby's side was asked, there was always some response like "RUN now" or "it's not too late to back out now!" like in a joking( but maybe serious undertone ) manner. Even my sis in law when asked if she had anything to say to us she said "not anything I can say on camera"

How should I feel about this? I always felt like they didn't like me ; patronize me but talk about me behind my back, and hubby tries to reassure me or protect me, but now what should I think about this?

2007-08-12 12:46:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-08-12 12:44:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok.. so my boyfriend and i have been together for over eight* months. : ) & i must say that i love him with all my heart & he feels the same. but today he went to college.. its twenty mintues from my house.. no big deal because i can see him whenever. but has anyone had these serious realtionships and because im in high school.. well see i basically raised my brother but then finally i got back to sum kid in me and im not quit ready to be an adult like that. and since he HAS to be now .. how will this affect us & ive heard many ppl take breaks in college.. can anyone help me to what i can do to prevent this and no everything will be ok!? thanks tons.

2007-08-12 12:41:35 · 6 answers · asked by Amara D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 12:39:43 · 15 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

I have recently started dating a man who has five kids.
Now I know what your thinking lol 5?
Yeah 5 kids. But the problem is.. his wife
she left him a while ago, but she is always ditching the kids.
I LOVE these kids. I have a daughter myself. I understand that the kids should come to like me on their own. So I will let them. I know they are having a hard time as it is.
But she is so self centered! She tells him that she will come and see the kids... she doesnt. Then to make it better she doesnt even bother to call to say she wont be there. I want to be there for these kids and my boyfriend. I have never been in this situation. Of course it is great that he doesnt want her back after all the **** that shes putting the kids through. But its more then that. How would I take it if she was around the kids?
Would I be able to accept it?
I want to help yet, sitting back and lending my friendship and my love for this family doesnt seem to be enough.

2007-08-12 12:38:29 · 23 answers · asked by Randi B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is totally new, I kept getting messages, all in the same day, from unknown people only on my yahoo IM. Why is this happening?

2007-08-12 12:35:19 · 2 answers · asked by Jay Jay 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

a table away from people with children i have nothing against kids but when i go out to eat i just want to relax..and not here them screaming

2007-08-12 12:34:45 · 18 answers · asked by violated905 2 in Family

2007-08-12 12:33:47 · 22 answers · asked by ♥Anna♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister is always on the phone! She can be on it for hours! Everytime I tell her I need to use it she says I need it for 5 minutes. Then she stays on so long that the phone dies.If anyone calls for me when she is on she will delete it. When I get the chance to be on she wants to get on and if anyone called she gets mad that I didnt answer! Would you be annoyed and mad?!

2007-08-12 12:31:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I 'm sure I have a lot to give , I can make all the unhappy girls happy
I'm the the ultimate pleasure machine , and the romantic river
Life is short... and i didn't know how to start ?

2007-08-12 12:31:27 · 4 answers · asked by MIN 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex Wife died 2 years ago without my knowledge didnt find out till now, had a daughter her, my daughter is now living with my ex's step brother and her natural grandmother. have tried to find her for two years, only to find out that my ex wife died 3 months after finalisation of our divorce.need to know my rights, i was married to her when my daughter was conceived/born and what rights does the step brother as i dont get on with him to say the least.Any help would really be appreciated. many thanks

2007-08-12 12:30:57 · 11 answers · asked by TREVOR G 2 in Family

My dad and sister are estranged, and my dad and I just recently started talking again. My sister and her husband have made it clear that they don't want our dad and step-mom to be included in the baby's life. I also don't want to be put in the middle, and I feel like it isn't my news to tell. It is their first child, so my dad's a grandpa for the first time (not counting step-kids). Therefore, I'd feel bad if he didn't know. I'm just not sure that my sister even wants him to know, and I don't want to bring it up and ask her when she just had the baby yesterday. On the other hand, I don't my dad finding out some other way and then make me feel bad about me (or my sister) not telling him. He found out she was pregnant from the woman at the post office and then from an ex-wife (not our mom....he's been married a few times), and I do think that's an awful way to find out you're a grandpa for the first time. Anyway, thanks for reading, and thanks for your help.

2007-08-12 12:30:06 · 5 answers · asked by ChocolateCoveredStrawberries 2 in Family

What do you do when your in-laws ignore you when you ask them not to do something involving your 1 year old?

Example-placing in car without infant seat.(wife shrugs it off with no regard)

2007-08-12 12:30:00 · 7 answers · asked by Sergio R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a problem..... My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now. It's iffy like most relationships. Well last night we were talking and we came across a question that I did not want to talk about, only because I was fearful that the answer to this question would send the relationship into a breakup. If you had information that if shared COULD either end your relationship, or help it and answer a lot of questions, but the outcome is unsure what you you do?

I just want to add that I really love this girl, and I do not want to lose her.

2007-08-12 12:28:57 · 20 answers · asked by TEFMLB 3 in Singles & Dating

I am about to be SHIPPED off to an EXTREMELY strict boarding school far away from home. It only seemed logical I needed to break up with my boyfriend beforehand. I was not all that worried about it as it seemed to based upon TWO YOUNG HOTTIES SHARING SOME FUN TIMES rather than real love.

However, his response surprised me and I would appreciate others' opinions as to how I should approach this quagmire. He asked me if we can just continue to have INTERCOURSE anyways until I go away to school (which is only a few more days) and when I return on vacations?

I was TOO STUNNED and HURT to answer as he said he had told everyone that we FREQUENTLY DO IT so I ran away SCREAMING ABOUT HOW DISGUSTED I WAS by him. Should I just tell him TO GO TAKE A HIKE?

2007-08-12 12:25:24 · 27 answers · asked by Lori 5 in Singles & Dating