Ok.. so my boyfriend and i have been together for over eight* months. : ) & i must say that i love him with all my heart & he feels the same. but today he went to college.. its twenty mintues from my house.. no big deal because i can see him whenever. but has anyone had these serious realtionships and because im in high school.. well see i basically raised my brother but then finally i got back to sum kid in me and im not quit ready to be an adult like that. and since he HAS to be now .. how will this affect us & ive heard many ppl take breaks in college.. can anyone help me to what i can do to prevent this and no everything will be ok!? thanks tons.
2007-08-12 12:41:35 · 6 answers · asked by Amara D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give up u sexy hoe
2007-08-12 12:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I emphathize with you and I have been in your situation so I can only share what I know. You have already admitted that you have, for the most part, grown up and dealt with the pieces of life before you might have been ready. You also seem to be saying that as much as you 'love' your boyfriend, being in high school means you still have some 'fun' waiting for you. Proms, parties, etc. Even being 20 minutes away can bring about some degree of separation - don't think that there are no girls on that campus.....and you might find yourself wanting to date other boys.
Stop second guessing yourself and do the 'mature' thing. Talk to your BF and find out what he thinks about the relationship since being in college? He might want to take a break. There is no promise that 'everything will be okay'. Not even in marriage - unless you both are working on it...
2007-08-12 19:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can predict the future. my advice is to definitely give him space if he so desires. you are still young and there is so much that he or you both want to experience. if he chooses to date don't nag just pull away from him by not calling. if you do this consistently either he will come back to you if he really wants you or he will not. either way do what you have to do to not fall into a depression if he decides to date other women while in college. i have a guy friend that did this. he had a high school sweetheart he really cared about, and after going through may relationships in college he always knew he would go back to her. he went back b/c she understood the need for him to have space and whenever they called or saw each other (even after months of not communicating) they were happy together because there was no resentment since they both understood the situation
2007-08-12 19:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by Divine_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is meant to be will be. Ever hear that? I don't think anyone is ready to be an adult, you just wake up one day and put on a skirt that comes to your knees. It just happens. Don't live your life with fear, everything happens for a reason. If you take a break, it doesn't mean that you can't still be friends. No one can ever tell you that everything is going to be okay - things just happen to work out the best way for you. Love him for who he is and everything else will fall into place. Good luck!
2007-08-12 19:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Siren5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be better off not stressing over it. Your jealousy will be more likely to drive him away than any girl he meets in college. The girls there will be more interested in a junior or senior anyway, so relax. If he does leave you, there wasn't much there to begin with , and no huge loss.
2007-08-12 19:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO THE NASTYYYY OOOOOOOO
2007-08-12 19:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋