Meaning her stomach sticks farther than her booty do. What do I do because I am not very attracted to her?
2007-08-12 12:53:27 · 20 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Deal with it. For better or worse.
2007-08-12 13:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, can I just say it's rude to worry about her appearance.
Second of all, has she had kids? Does she have trouble losing weight? Are there serious medical conditions that could be causing it or some not so serious? Does she get regular check-ups?
And lastly, have you even TRIED talking to her about it without being mean and nasty or cracking jokes? If you can't communicate in a marriage and go to sources like this looking for answers you could be allowing yourself to fall into a very large pit called Divorce, studded with Lonliness due to the fact that your question does seem shallow.
2007-08-12 20:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Totally understandable. Guys are wired to be stimulated visually, some people just don't understand that.
I know hubby has said a few hints to me, but I knew it was the truth, therefore I was not offended.
Can you tell her sweetly as you can? And what about you? Does she have any complaints about you that she can bring up as well?
I've told my hubby about his gut getting rounder, and he took it well and we both do our own thing to lose some poundage and stay in shape.
Its all about communication and supporting each other. Good luck!
2007-08-12 20:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by ellen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL~
When I first read the question I thought you were meaning that she had "do" on her booty!
Glad to learn what the real meaning is...Phew!
Encourage her to be active...with you. And start bringing in healthy foods...tell her you want both of you to start being more healthy.
2007-08-12 21:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remember your vow!
In sickness and in health, better or worst, richer or poorer, til death do you part!
I hope that you were attracted to her for more than sex when you got married.
Also, if you had gained weight and she did not, how would you feel if she thought that about you?
Remember the love....
2007-08-12 20:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by James F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why did you marry your wife in the first place if it were for her looks then your pathetic because one day looks will fade and all you will have is personality so i hope you married her because you love the type of person she is but it seems like you are only in the marriage for her looks...are yougoing to become a statistic of couples getting divorced?
2007-08-12 20:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by sgtvjd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF she is still the same person you married.
You don't like the way she looks and are no longer attracted to her .
Is that the only reason you married?Just for her for her looks. She can loose weight and be like before ,and then what will your feelings for her be? No body is perfect.
You are so shallow.
There is more to a woman than just her appearance.
2007-08-12 20:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Precious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess she is a lucky girl to have picked such a loving thoughtful and non judgemental man to marry.
2007-08-13 00:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by Donna J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly.....You better hope your wife doesn't find out that you think this about her. If you married her you must love her. Do you know how bad that would hurt her feelings if she found out you said this online? Do you want to hurt her feelings?
2007-08-12 20:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by krissy0131 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to work out and run! but at the same time encourage her to do these things for herself! Don't bring her down either...be nice about it!
2007-08-12 20:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by In love! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAHA! You guys should exercise together. That made my night.... booty-do
2007-08-12 23:03:03 · answer #11 · answered by knh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋