Every time I like I guy, I flirt. But I always become a buddy of theirs' and they "wouldn't want to mess up the friendship.. I need Guys/Girls POV thnxx..
2007-08-12 16:21:55 · 4 answers · asked by Emily H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u shopuld just try a lil harder!
if u hang out, get closer!
make the extra contacts, the different looks, a lil more flirty, maybe even make a move, all depends on what ur comfortable with, and if the 2 of u r comfortable together
2007-08-12 16:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have the same problem you have it really sucks!! I find that it is because I am so open and honest with them and make the girl feel safe. Then the next thing I know I am hearing about all their problems. The best thing to do is not to let them use you as a person to tell their problems to. I mean if they start just change the subject. Do not become friendly to fast. I bet you flirt until you get their attention then act like your own sweet self. You should continue to flirt with them even after you get to know them and while you are getting to know them. The catch is to let them know that you think they are good looking and seem nice, while showing them you are interested. I am always very nice and find that girls usually want me for a friend because of that. Then they go out with some jackass that is usually not that good to them. That makes them think that if they date a friend that they get along with that if it does not work out they will no longer be friends. The funny thing is it is the people that you get along with and can be friends with that people should date. Good luck, I really do feel your pain! :)
2007-08-12 23:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that younger people think that this attraction thing is something new the problem is that most of the younger generation went to mixed schools there boys&girls treat each other as friends mates then try to change the previus 10 year enviramental teachings of course its difficult to talk to the opposite sex you treated them as friends for10 years .
Don,t ask him what he likes to do he will think you want to hang out as mates, tell him what you like to do ,dancing cycling swimming whatever, trick is you want him to come into your world you don,t want to hang out in his you,ll become a friend ..
2007-08-13 00:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually this problem is with me. So, god a played a one game with me. And i had comed to right path then decided not to choose anyone because all mens are ridiculuous. Stay away frm them and don't getup feeling for someone. don't show up to anyone if u get feeling for someone.if u want to get someone then wear a sexy dress but don't flirt (Saamne wale ko nazarandaaz kar do)
that u r watching him
2007-08-13 01:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by shreya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋