wen we were little my older bro get all da attention but now he gets little cuzz im begining 2 out do him in everthing like sport,skool,n other activity.. i only want us 2 become good brothers but he nvr listen 2 me n always hav 2 argue bak cuzz im younger n my parent like it that way now he keep getting competitiv with me n i dont want 2 fight with him all da time. wat should i do 2 let him know i only want wats good 4 him????
2007-08-12 16:36:31 · 4 answers · asked by Sum azn guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ah, this is the usual sibling "rivalry" feeling that your brother may feel. I myself am an older sister and I feel that mine out does me in certain things, as well. I am jealous too sometimes, but I think the best thing to do is to give your brother some time. Don't talk to him for a little while, and when you do, compliment but dont overcompliment. Say things like Oh, i wish I had a car or I wish i knew how to.... or something like that. You probably have a lot in common so try to invite him to a basketball game or whatever. Your brother might feel good in giving advice. Tell him about a girl you like or something. Introduce your brother to a few friends, get them to say something about him which you can compliment.
No matter what you do, remember that he is your older brother, so he helped influence you to outdo him as he was growing up, so never let him forget that! Tell him that he teaches you a lot in terms of life and he probably doesnt realize it.
2007-08-12 16:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by desigal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to abbreviate everything you type in here. You're not restricted or paying like when sending text messages!
I'm sure he is not jealous of someone with such an inflated ego - he is just doing the normal brotherly thing & treating a big-noting younger sister accordingly.
When you are old enough to attend high school you'll realize a few of these things.
2007-08-12 23:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do stuff hes good at as well,we all have bro,s sometimes you have to be the older one, let him show you some stuff or ask him hay how can i do that, me i just like you i have 3 bro,s and me mom and dad pick i just a good son to ,it happens but let him show you some time that what we do,,got it
2007-08-12 23:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by rocketman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him win some.
2007-08-12 23:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋