Is it okay to marry a man that is unable to pay wedding bills and feed a woman?

Question

A jobless man is in love with a woman and wedding has been fixed for 1st of september this year, so far he has been unable to show that he can afford to buy all that the woman's culture and tradition demands before she can be given to him in marriage, should such a woman still go into the marriage?

Answer 1

Definitely NOT.. It's a man's responsibility to look after HIS WOMAN in every aspect of finance, safety, comfort, love, respect, security etc.. If he is unable to provide finances, well.. he is not a MAN!!

Answer 2

I don't know how old you guys are, however if you are young and he is just starting out in his career, the money will come. American tradition dictates that the brides parents are responsible for the wedding expenses. I don't understand why you feel the way you feel, or what your culture is, is he lazy, is he not good at his job? Can you not work, I do and help with expenses in our home and it works out quite well. If you want to not work and earn money, if you want to sit by and watch you husband go off into the world and struggle to support you day in and day out and not contribute when he needs help, I think that he could do better. If you are committed to a marriage and would do everything you can to make your lives together more comfortable, then that might be a good idea. Woman fought hard to earn the right to work, this was a fight for your freedom and Independence, to help you from becoming stuck in situations and having very limited options. I am grateful for the right to work, I am grateful to have a husband who I love to cook and clean for, who also helps around the house without a grudge. To me this is a modern marriage.

Answer 3

she sounds like she doesnt mind supporting him, if she thinks that he will change then NO they shouldnt get married or even ever started dating.
help from above =What helped me most was a prayer from the Lord "Im sorry for telling a lie and all my other sins, come into my heart and help me do better be my friend, amen"

He promised this in Revelation 3:19&20 "I love you, repent from your sins quickly. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you ask me in, I will come in and be your friend."

and a good prayer in this situation once one asks the Lord into their heart= "Jesus if I am not willing to do your will change my will so I will be willing to do it, amen"
second go to the best counselor and get direction, even if it means to go to a relationship counselor.
"Unto us a child will be born, a son given, and he will be mighty God, the wonderful Counselor, the prince of peace."

let nothing take your peace away from your heart

prayin for you
wish you all the best in this & this woman and man

Answer 4

Absolutely not, if does not have a job and is not able to contribute to this wedding this marriage shoudl be postponed. If he is not making an effort to find a job and be more responsible what makes you think he will change. Wake up!

Answer 5

Oh my God they getting married on my birthday.

Ok Just to be honest I wouldn't, It's not all about money but a man should be able to take care of his household even if his woman works.

Answer 6

personally I would not marry a man who was not out there looking for a job if he was unemployed, and I mean he would be out there applying for jobs every day and attending interviews etc, I cannot stand people who sponge of the state, I don't mean people who can't work because of illness etc, but people who are just too lazy to work.

Answer 7

This only gets worse, not better.

Cut the losses and find a man who works.

This love stuff wears off a lot quicker when you can't pay the rent.

Answer 8

as long as the woman doesnt expect him to change after the wedding...she needs to be ready to pay for everything...love is from the heart, not from his wallet though..

Answer 9

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Answer 10

any woman can change the man easily if she want to start this it is ok but if she is not she should quit