I know most couple either they are dating or married like to advertise themself in public how they love each other and we have all seen them,. Men opening car doors for their women, but women don't do likewise. Men buying flower to suprise their loved ones but I wonder how many women do the same to their men. But do you believe that rumantic love would last longer than passionate love which most women assumes and neglects and I think beyond a reasonable doubt that they walk away from passionate love. Why do and what do you think is best for them in a relationship since you can't have both continuesly at the same time.
2007-08-16 19:42:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Passionate because rumance doesn't exist
2007-08-16 19:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
why cant you have them both at the same time?
after 3 or 4 years marriage if you have kids theres not enough time for romance even if the woman desires and misses it anyway and as for passionate love that only lasts up until the end of the honeymoon period unless your sexual needs are higher then the regular joe blo .....
my marriage has never been romantic its our 2nd marriages and we had 7 kids to raise together the passionate love didnt kick in until I hit my 30's so even though we have passion it didnt stop him cheating on me with a woman who in his view was more passionate then I am lol so you figure it out .....
the simple fact every relationship is different
every person within a relationship is different
if you werent romantic before the marriage you wont be during the marriage
if you werent passionate before the marriage you wont be during the marriage
its been proven by scientists
so make a choice on which you wanna be 1 or the other or both the final decision is up to the indivudual and how lazy they are and selfish.....
2007-08-16 20:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt make any sense. i have both, and both are an effort on each persons part. the man has a 'role' to play, as does a woman, but for each couple it is different. i am very traditional, like the door being opened and the chair being pulled out, but i repay in my own secret ways, usually that night. i dont think you understand what passionate love is. you have referenced it all in very material terms. romance and passion are emotions, not gestures. its not something you can create by being polite. it is something that you feel and express as a powerful connection. keep looking, you havent found it yet.
2007-08-16 19:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that separates romance and passion from love, will never experience true love. It is possible to be passionately romantic...at all times.
Good luck.
2007-08-16 19:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by imrt70 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most romance leads to passion. You shouldn't have to choose one or the other. They go together and compliment eachother.
2007-08-16 19:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by ez2confuze 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I can't have both, I would rather be by myself.
2007-08-16 19:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
romantic as it is more long lasting
2007-08-16 19:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the stuff that makes her sore
2007-08-16 19:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋