I recently looked on the site history on my mom's laptop. I found that she has visited dating websites for women who are married. My mom and dad are in a very good relationship, but he is gone a lot. Our family is so normal that nothing like this ever happens. What does this mean?
We are extremely religious so I doubt she would be thinking of actually having an affair...
Please dont say to talk to her about it, because it would hurt her if she knew I looked at her laptop and that I knew.
2007-08-16 19:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, are u 100 percent positive that she was actually searching those sites? the reason i say this is because, alot of times when u go to different sites on the web.. spam will pop up and it will look like u looked at it when u pull up the history, if she was actually Looking at it, she would of had to actually entered the page, and not just be the cover page.. for example.. say u found on the history.. Www.marriedbutwilling.com (made that up) underneath that it would have more pages of what she was looking at under that site.. another example.. if u have a myspace. page if u look at the history of the myspace, it will have myspace.com then more links below it.. example myspace.com/inbox, myspace.com/pictures , myspace.com/zzz_zzz (someone elses profile) etc.. but if u just click on it and its the cover page, then it doesnt mean she is actually entering that site.. and could be just a page that popped up while surfing the net for other things i use to constantly have www.adultfriendfinder.com pop up on my computer, and that has some raunchy stuff on it, even the cover page.. but i wasnt going into it.. but it would still come up on my history.. so before u go biserk, u need to make sure that ur not just assuming things ..
And if ur mom is actually going into these sites.. then it means one of two things.. she's either curious.. or she's contimplating an affair..
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Its possible that she may be worried that ur dad is up to something and is checking these sites out because perhaps she found the sites on the pc as well after ur father used the computer.. so she's trying to see if theres cause for her to be worried, if he was possibly looking at sites on the pc, it could be a million and one things.. so please just stop assuming the worse..
but if she's that religious and flys that much of a straight and narrow, id be surprised if she's actually messing with those sites..
Good luck
2007-08-16 20:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think your mom and dad are in a very good relationship then why are you worried about the site. I tell you this much. People in relationships need more to hold than a telephone, if you know what I mean. You mom could be lonely. It does not matter if your family is extrememly religious or not. To err is human. Humans want to feel loved, needed, desired, ect... And if your dad does not do that for your mom then she might be looking for someone who can or will.. If you dont want to talk to her about it then dont but you could be letting your family fall apart. Yeah your mom might be hurt that you looked at here laptop but she should know that you care about her and your dad and that you dont want anything to happen. As far as your dad goes, maybe he needs to find a different profession to where he can be with his wife more..
2007-08-16 19:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by williep197502 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st question how old are you
2nd question you didnt find this by accident so why were you spying on your mum?
this is not a conversation for you to be having at all with your mum what ever her reasons or religious beliefs this is 1 of those times when your going to have to say to yourself its none of my business and I trust and love my mum enough to know she wouldnt do this .....
there are television add's all over add's on the internet even the most loyal person gets curious plus the fact you dont know your parents as well as you may think what ever her reason it really has nothing to do with you , I am a parent and my kids dont know half the problems I've faced during my marriage because as a parent its my job to protect them from issues unless it directly effects them so put it to the back of your mind and stay out of your parents files trust me its for the better .....
2007-08-16 19:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 17:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by tedesco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is married. She is looking up websites with married women. I seriously doubt she is a lesbian so she's probably looking for female friends. Give her the benefit of the doubt and stay out of her things..Respect your mom..don't invade her privacy..
2007-08-16 19:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is just lonely and looking for a friend to do things with. If she is religious, she wouldn't think of getting it on with someone else. More info is needed about the website itself. Maybe they have a section for just an activity partner? ??
2007-08-16 19:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by lone_lee_days 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the best child in the world for ur mom. Sometimes we children never know what ur mother might have endured, perhaps loneliness while u studied n father was busy earning.
2007-08-16 19:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect your mom's privacy just like you want her to respect yours. When you snoop you find out things like this that you are better off not knowing about. Now you're all worried that your mom is thinking about stepping out. Trust that your mom is going to do the right thing and forget about it.
2007-08-16 19:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to ask her about it, her being the only one who can answer your question, then you need to mind your own business and stay out of her laptop from now on. Pray for her.
2007-08-16 20:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should learn to stop snooping and mind your own business. It has nothing to do with you, and I'm sure your mom would be cheezed off with you if she knew you were so nosy. Your mom will make her own decisions regarless of what you do.
2007-08-16 19:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋