Family & Relationships - 16 August 2007

2007-08-16 02:20:17 · 12 answers · asked by Omar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been together 3 1/2 years, engaged 1 1/2. We've lived together for almost 2 years now as well. Last August I moved with him 2 hours away from my hometown so he could finish school at the University. I left my family, friends and work. This past Saturday he tells me he's no longer "In-Love" with me...but still loves, cares and has deep feelings for me. He says we just don't have the spark anymore and he doesn't want to feel like this after we get married. He wants to work on things to see if there really is something there or not. We're each other's best friends still...
I've decided to move back down home to give him his time and space. We still plan on seeing each other when he comes home and I plan on coming up to see him. We've decided together not to see other people. He still tells me he loves me...but he just doesn't know what he wants. I've asked him if he has cold feet and he says no....what do I do?? Our wedding was set for October 13-this year

2007-08-16 02:18:25 · 7 answers · asked by dani_m_w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

anyone have any cute quotes i could use for something?? it would b really big help

2007-08-16 02:15:32 · 5 answers · asked by sftballchic062001 2 in Singles & Dating

...and we set up a movie date that same night for Friday at a theater. On Wednesday, he texted me to see if I was busy and to see if I wanted to come over and watch a movie at his house. I told him i was and he said “see u on Friday then”. Since I’ve had pretty bad experiences with guys who wanted to just score, I got suspicious. He seems like a pretty nice guy but i have my guard up big time. Am I wrong to be suspicious in this situation?

2007-08-16 02:14:36 · 30 answers · asked by Indgrid 1 in Singles & Dating

If two loving people are committed to each other why do they have to have a piece of paper to say that it is ok to have children? I don't get it.

2007-08-16 02:14:33 · 32 answers · asked by jennasue14 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been friends with someone for about 5 years now and we have gone through alot together and now it seems as if she has changed and not for the better.
Recently she filed for divorce and I understand that because of something this big some changes will happen but her whole lifestyle has changed. She use to never go out and party (for one reason she has kids) and she use to call me atlest 2 or 3 times a week and I would do the same or I would atleast get a text message once a day. Now I havent got a call from her in about a week or so, and now all she does is go out and party (or thats the way it seems) and when I do call and she does answer we only talk for about 3 minutes or so. I am worried that something is wrong with our friendship. Can anyone give me a fresh perspective on this???
Should i continue to be there for her or should I cut the friendship off or just be there but leave her alone and wait to pick up the pieces?

2007-08-16 02:14:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is this one man trying to get closer with me. Last year he tried, and when I was almost ready to say yes, he smoothlyannunced during one of our convesations he was living with a woman. Then his mother denied. I forgot about him. Now (a few months later) he is back again, giving me unsolicited massages, touching my shoulders in a very innocent looking way. I think he is trying to get me arroused. He finds me in the halls, brings me a few candies, etc. It maybe womens instuition but I think this he is trying to ask me for a date. I’m quite attracted to him, he has good qualities I admired, but I also think he maybe gay, because most men don't have so many plastic surgeries. Background? He is in his 50s, lives with an elderly mother; I like him but, whats up with the face-lifts? Is he gay or what? Should I let him get closer? Am I imagining him wanting to date me? Maybe he just wants to be my friend. OK, guys, give it your best shot

2007-08-16 02:09:03 · 1 answers · asked by carisondamove 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3.5 years. I always thought he was the one I was going to marry. Things have gotten really bad over the past 3 months. I feel disrespected and deeply hurt. He tells me he is tired of how angry I act towards him. I feel I'm angry because of everything that is going on. How can we work on things to get them back to where they used to be? I thought we should start by making a list of things that bother us about the relationship. I'm worried it is too far gone though. He isn't even sure if he loves me anymore. Do I give up or try to fix things. If things don't get better, I'll have to move on, I can't take feeling like **** all time much longer. What do I do?

2007-08-16 02:06:51 · 16 answers · asked by spynmepynk 2 in Singles & Dating

I haven't spoken with my father in 16 years. His family contacted me to let me know he passed away. I have no real attachment to that side of my family and have had no real contact with them in years. Is it wrong for me miss the funeral?

2007-08-16 02:05:14 · 22 answers · asked by diggerfloyd 2 in Family

When we go to her drs appointments the doc and I cut up, he laughs at me all the time and we joke around. My fiance tells me he thinks the dr. is flirting with me too, but I don't know. I kinda wish he was. What do I do and do you think the doc might be crushing on me as well like my fiance says he is?

2007-08-16 02:05:01 · 14 answers · asked by Angela A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a question about threesomes. My husband wants one and I have no issue with having sex with women (I am bi).
My question is will this hurt our relationship? (We have a great relationship and are best friends as well as lovers)
The last thing I want to do is put our marriage in jeopardy but I do want to fullfill his fantasy.

2007-08-16 02:03:42 · 24 answers · asked by Spring 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-16 01:58:53 · 24 answers · asked by bec 3 in Marriage & Divorce

am a lady aged 25 years and have been hooked up with a guy aged 27 years
have been struggling to meet the daily requirements of our lives since he doesnt work.The problem is he doesnt seem to be serious to get employment or struggle to put up a business for himself to help in the family.above all he has been taking some of the my savings without saying which makes us end up in querel.is this a good sign of someone who is serious or do i forget about in and continue with my life alone besides that we have one year son .please advice

2007-08-16 01:56:54 · 22 answers · asked by ndanu c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At first, my boyfriend's best friend was just joking with me, and then he just started actually hitting on me.

He called my house, he kept touching me, and he always tries to sit close to me.

My boyfriend has no idea about any of this, and it's hard to avoid his best friend, and I don't know if I should just deal with it.

His friend is hot and he knows it, and he's pretty concieted.

What should I do?

2007-08-16 01:52:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does anyone know of any lawyers that can complete the paperwork for us to get married? Basically what do I do to get the process going?

2007-08-16 01:50:29 · 2 answers · asked by aintlifegrand 4 in Marriage & Divorce

apparently they heard some noises there, but it has been many days now, do you believe they or at least some of them are still alive?

2007-08-16 01:47:59 · 3 answers · asked by momma again 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this gurl from school that i like and i ask for her # and she did give me her # then couple weeks passed we texted and i asked her if i could go to her house and i did we talked alot and i met her family but i only go to her house on weekend nights(a friday, saturday) AND her bday is in 2 weeks. Should i SURPRISE her? and tell what i feel about her? is this the perfect timing? or should i take it slow and wait for the signal? People need ur opinion on this...

2007-08-16 01:47:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 01:47:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is 19 years old - has a GED. Does nothing. No job, no drivers license. Has thought about the Army - but now he doesn't know what he wants. I'm at my witts end ... what should I do - I told him either he gets a job (which he won't) or join the Army (which he might - but I think he's scared) or get out of my house by August 31st. He's never had a father figure - no true friends - the "friends" he has just get him in trouble - he's a very good looking nice kid - I can tell he's just lonely and wants accepted and he doesn't care if he has to smoke pot to be friends or drink to be friends - or whatever ... what should I do? Do you think the Army would be a good thing for him - I think he's scared he'll be lonely and have no friends. HELP !

2007-08-16 01:46:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Heres my story, thank you to everyone who answered!
I run away from home all the time.
Because I'm A 14 year old girl and the middle child in my family. I am also the only girl out of the 3.
My older brother tries to sexually abuse me and beat me, he sometimes does but luckily has never sexually abused me.
And my younger brother treats me like dirt because I'm a girl.
I'm incredibly thin and weak because I get very little food+drink compared to my brothers and what food I do get they often steal.
Because I'm the middle child my parents neglect me. I get £5 pocket money a week and my brothers get £20 each.
Why my parents say? Because I'm a girl and because of that ille just spend it on something useless.
Currently I have being sleeping rough in Durham busking for food money with my bass guitar.
If I don't sleep rough I at my boyfriends because I feel he and his family treat me great!

But now I'm safe and am going into the care home tomorrow.
YAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!!

2007-08-16 01:43:06 · 14 answers · asked by DH 2 in Family

2007-08-16 01:41:53 · 22 answers · asked by Diana 1 in Friends

She's been in jail 4times for smashing a car and starting a punch up. What should I do? am I safe?

2007-08-16 01:35:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have a bf. and when i go onto zwinky, this guy asked me to be his gf, i told him that since i had a bf, we could be just computer bf, and gf, is that concidered cheating on my bf in the real world?

2007-08-16 01:32:46 · 35 answers · asked by Kiwi 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at my moms yesterday helping her make the beds and stuff cuz her back has been playing up and......horror of horrors I found a vibrator! I cant look her in the eye now. How would you react?

2007-08-16 01:32:42 · 19 answers · asked by SuperstarDJStellaB 1 in Family

I'm dating a man from England whom I met in Australia. We've been doing the long distance thing for about a year now and have lasted this long with complete trust and appreciation for each other. I was wondering, do long distance relationships have a tendency to go south even after being together for a year or more? Or do they tend to fall apart earlier in the relationship?

2007-08-16 01:26:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is my second marriage, we have been married for 3 years. My husband is a wonderful man in many ways, he is a good father to my children as well as to our son who is 2. He is also very affectionate but completely lost interest in sex! He is 38 years old, his sex drive used to be brilliant (every day he can manage at least once) but for the past 2 years or so once every 2 or 3 months would be a miracle! What is wrong with him?? He hates talking about it he thinks I only make problem worsen by discussing it with him. We tried cialis (type of viagra) it meant to be strong but it didnt work! Can anyone help me?

2007-08-16 01:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by Nemo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been engaged for 5 months, but only lately that he told me about the real situation with him and his family. All the stories that he told me about them was all made up because of a mistake he made years ago. he confessed to me saying that he cant keep it anymore and wants us to have a peaceful life. there was another instance that i asked if it was really his sister, but it also wasnt and it was his good friend. he said its not impt for me those things in the past anymore and was trying to protect me but all i feel is that it was himself that he was trying to protect. he became a different person from the one that i used to know. but he said he wanted to correct those mistakes. i love him and i wanted to give him a chance.

I hope you can give me helpful insights about this. Should i just forget everything of his past and be happy for the both of us?

Thanks for the time, i would really appreciate it.

2007-08-16 01:23:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are you pure?
How many of you would say that you are waiting for the perfect spouse and haven't done anything (as in kiss, and the rest of the stuff) yet with a person of the opposite sex? Or how many of you haven't have a boyfriend/girlfriend because you are waiting for the one only and you aren't old enough to get married anyways?

2007-08-16 01:23:11 · 13 answers · asked by ~Living4HIM~ 4 in Singles & Dating

Can you guys really have meaningless sex with a girl for over a year.
How can you do that?
I was in love, and still am, with a guy who rocked my world, but i found out he had a fiance. The fiance and i found out about each other via a text msg i sent him, she found it and then called me back the next day when he was at work. She was very understanding and we talked for ages about what he had put us through.
Whats up with that? Can men really have sex with a women for over a yr and not care about her and have a fiance?

2007-08-16 01:21:46 · 8 answers · asked by Purity 4 in Singles & Dating

Please no rudeness.

I was wondering if you could tell me if you sense if anyone has a crush on me or likes me more than a friend..

Okay, heres my details:

Female
name: Sonya
Brown hair(dark)
tall(171cm)
Ballroom dances
two brothers
fav animal: Cats
lives in Australia


Oh, and here's all of the guys I know(not family)

Andrew
Cameron
Martin
Peter
Tom
Ben
Thomas
Sebastion


ps. can you also tell me how each one likes me?
for example:

Phillip likes sue more than a friend but doesn't wanna show it, and Bill is only attracted to sue but doesn't 'like' her, and bob does not like sue more than a friend and thinks she is ugly...


Thankyou =)

2007-08-16 01:19:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating