i have a bf. and when i go onto zwinky, this guy asked me to be his gf, i told him that since i had a bf, we could be just computer bf, and gf, is that concidered cheating on my bf in the real world?
2007-08-16 01:32:46 · 35 answers · asked by Kiwi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YeS....as a matter of fact it is...I mean, you are still in a relationship though you are in the cyber world...
inFoRm your bf................................................
2007-08-16 02:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by χ-ѕђαпz-χ Σ=ρнεпомεпоп=Σ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you have to ask and are questioning you're actions then yes it probably is cheating. It's emotionally cheating, especially if you're spending mroe time with you're "internet boyfriend." How would you feel if you're boyfriend told you that he decided to see an "internet girlfriend," or a "telephone girlfriend." Would'nt you be hurt if he spent more time with her than you? I don't think that having an internet boyfriend is being faithful to your boyfriend. Or you can ask your boyfriend how he would feel if you had an internet boyfriend. Of course that would also mean that he would also be able to have an "internet girlfriend," if you both believe it's not a big deal. I don't think this is a good idea though. If you spend more time on the itnernet than with each other you both will eventually grow apart. And "dating" on the internet can also be very dangerous. Never give out your address or phone-number, the name of your city, or the name of your school; or anything that could be used to track you down.
2007-08-18 22:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm not sure how to answer your question... Computer boyfriend? What exactly is that? You sit at home and IM each other back and forth, occasionally adding "actions"? Is that really romantic or fullfiling in any way? Having a relationship with a computer monitor? About the cheating thing... youre obvioulsy having second thoughts about your real life man otherwise you wouldn't have some other guy on the side.
2007-08-16 01:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mystery_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd guess not, but if you don't like this guy on the computer, then I would tell him to buzz off. I mean who just randomly goes up to you in zwinky and asks to be in love with them? Weird guy if you ask me. And what if he wants to meet you in real life someday? Akward... Bad idea.
2007-08-16 01:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it is... I'm sure it is something that would upset him, as it would you. If this computer guy was a long term friend of yours, and you joke about being an online couple, that's a little more acceptable. But not what seems to be going on here.
2007-08-16 01:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by joedudez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating on your bf in the real world
2007-08-16 01:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes and I believe you feel the same way. What other reason would it bother your conscience enough to ask. Gurl if you have a good man try your best to be faithful from all angles cause whats done in the dark will come to the light even if it is cyber dating. THINK ABOUT IT AND GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-08-16 01:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by brave_lady2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... Bring yourself down to the real world, girl!
So, you think that "computer boyfriends" aren't 'real'... So, you could have a telephone boyfriend, and that wouldn't be cheating either?
Just pick a guy and stick with him! Why do you need more boyfriends?
2007-08-16 01:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you are not physically cheating on your boyfriend, you are emotionally cheating on him. If you want to be with your boyfriend than you need to tell this other guy that you have a BF and that while you are flattered, you are not interested.
2007-08-16 01:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by bluemysti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then you already know the answer. If it was the opposite, you're bf doing that. How would you like it.
2007-08-16 01:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by USBP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it cheating if I have a gf and decide to have a telephone girlfriend too? Yes, It's cheating.
2007-08-16 01:37:15 · answer #11 · answered by Staveros 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋