Family & Relationships - 16 August 2007

My goal is to minimize arguments, somehow distribute the responsibilities so that one person doesn't feel that they are doing more than the other, and that both persons are respected and appreciated?

2007-08-16 06:32:31 · 6 answers · asked by Bumbo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me true do you think SIZE really matters and more how big is too big how small is too small?

2007-08-16 06:31:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my Bf have been together for two years now. I love him and I know he loves me. But lately I've been feeling a little to attached to him. I find myself wondering what he is doing all day long, I feel a little lost without him. When I'm out with my girlfriends all I think about is him. What does all this mean? I am so confused and pist with myself that Im ready to call it off?

2007-08-16 06:26:05 · 30 answers · asked by Twinkle 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, Here is a good ?
How do you think married actors, (Example- Michael Douglas & Katherine Zeta Jones ..OR ... Paula Patton and Robin Thicke) react when they find out that their spouse must do a NUDE LOVE SCENE?
I know I would not particularly like it, if my hubby was an actor & had to do this...but
How would YOU feel?

This is a FUN question! So, still answer me honestly...but it was just a ? I wanted to ask!

2007-08-16 06:25:39 · 10 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Marriage & Divorce

guys, what kinda clothes turn you on. pictures would be great

2007-08-16 06:23:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I stop being a pervert? It seems that lately, all the time i feel horny and I am not proud of that. My ex blames herself cuz she was going a little fast but I was like this before I had my frist girlfriend. What should I do, My #@$#ing friend just said masturbate. What should I really do?

2007-08-16 06:21:49 · 13 answers · asked by Emo Teenager 1 in Singles & Dating

When my husband and I got married we were in a very tight situation and VERY irresponsible, 4 months after we got married I found out we were pregnant. At first my husband worked full-time while I went to school full-time. We weren't rich but his job alone got us to survive. When my daughter was born I spent the first 5 months of her life at home, I was the stay at home mom and busted my as* at home, likemost of the mothers out there, When she got to be a little bit older than 5 months I decided it was time for a job. I worked as a hostes VERY part time. Making only 8 an hour, working 20 hours a week TOPS. This was BAD, becuase our rent doubled and no utilities were included. We were forced to move and I ended up quitting my job. We moved to a location where my husbands jo was all we needed. I attended school on the weekends for MA Certification. Eventually driving to school with only one car was bad becuase either my husband had to leave early to take me...(please wait 4 add. details)

2007-08-16 06:21:24 · 11 answers · asked by jmalin04 3 in Marriage & Divorce

(preferrably not e-bay)

2007-08-16 06:17:36 · 32 answers · asked by michelle v 1 in Weddings

i like guys that are sweet, funny, hot, outgoing and pretty smart.......i always like the same type of guys

2007-08-16 06:17:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is really nice to me when he is around but when he isn't its always the same thing. She wants me to get mad at him. She tellsme things like he is talking to his ex and she needed for me to know. I know this is not true because i know him and he isn't like that. I think she is so concerned about his money that she doesn't want him to have anyone not just me. I love him and i don't want him to hurt over this childish crap anymore.

2007-08-16 06:15:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 06:15:08 · 29 answers · asked by ☆miss☆ 3 in Family

2007-08-16 06:14:59 · 46 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Singles & Dating

if you didn't sleep with said jerk, don't answer this question.

2007-08-16 06:14:48 · 8 answers · asked by wigberto.serpa 2 in Singles & Dating

She is economically dependent on him and even worse, she is not sure if he does but she suspects! Sounds like mad does'nt it? If it is true how to handle this without breaking the marriage?

2007-08-16 06:13:27 · 9 answers · asked by ramsh67 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to be in love at the age of 15?

2007-08-16 06:11:18 · 7 answers · asked by sallyanne 3 in Singles & Dating

i was getting my yearbook signed he stopped and starred at me a girl walked up to him gave him a present they hugged he starred at me i got my yearbook back walked away he followed i turned around smiled he blushed and stared at me i walked away he followed

2007-08-16 06:06:58 · 1 answers · asked by missa 3 in Singles & Dating

im not looking for a guy who is perfect in every way, i actually like flaws in people,
i just mean why is it so hard to find the perfect boyfriend for me. the perfect guy for me, does he even exist, and will i ever meet him.

there are so many men i will never meet in my life, what if i miss him.

this kind of thing worries me. i have a boyfriend right now, but he isnt the one for me, well i dont think he is anyway...

I feel bad for staying with him knowing that i dont want to be with him forever, is that a really cruel thing to do?
im only 20, however he's 22.

Thanks

2007-08-16 06:06:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend used 2 date this guy a few yrs. ago for like 6months. He was her first real everything. Recently she started dating this guy who she knew for many yrs., but jus so happens 2 b friends w/ her ex as well. Though her & the new guy only been dating 4 a couple of wks, she really likes him. Wht should she do?

2007-08-16 06:05:13 · 20 answers · asked by T 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband told me not to leave the house while he was out of town. I did go out, and now there is "proof" out there. I am fearful my husband will go after my companion. He already told me not to make him break out the bat on this guy. What do I do?

2007-08-16 06:05:10 · 25 answers · asked by AJPierzynskis' 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is starting to get on my nerves! He is supposivly ALWAYS broke, so I pay for a lot of the stuff we do or we do nothing all of the time! But when he wants something for himself, he buys it! Or just out of no where, will come up with money to go drive around on his streetbike with! We did go to a Detroit Tiger's game last week, and he bought me a t-shirt, and a foam claw, and a hot dog (which was suprising). That is what kinda baffles me... is he just being cheap, or what? Maybe I was spoiled because the last ex paid for everything, and I maybe thought that is the way it goes... What do you guys think? I think I am gonna go up to the bar this weekend with my friends who can pay for their own stuff, rather than tagging him along and paying for his stuff. I am gonna be unemployed next month (contract worker) so he know I will definately not be shelling out the money then. I don't think he is using me, but what is the deal?

2007-08-16 06:04:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a son with ADD. His visits out of state with my ex-husband ruin his progress at school. Why should I let my son be pulled out of school for an extended weekend on Labor Day just one week after school goes back for the fall? This ex-husband has drug and alcohol problems, untreated bipolar, untreated abuse issues in his past.....

My son has never had to interrupt his school year before since I am primary residential parent. Due to my desire to marry again, I didn't fight hard enough to have full custody (the state we lived in then had joint justody by default) and now regret it....

2007-08-16 06:03:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Seriuosly, if it were big bones they'd be sticking out somewhere,on the chicks that claim "big bones" there is not a bone to be seen!

2007-08-16 05:54:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but still she cares for noone but her self she doesnt help around the house and gets what ever she wants my step dad just gave her 100 dollers and i got nothing she get 400 when ever she needs it
and im the good child. i help around the house im nice to everyone. and i still get next to nothing with my family. why is this what have i done in life and when ever i try to expilan this to my mom she doesnt belive it

2007-08-16 05:53:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My hubby & I have being a little apart from each other in the past month frist because there where problems with my step-son(10yrs)who spend 2 moths with.But there was always a figth due to him & to his mom (always causing problems too) the kid left 2 weeks ago & we are still apart we have had relations only 4 times this past month which is not normal on us.I don't know if it can B the stress we spend the past 2 months figthing .We love each other but personally I have being feeling that I a mad @him or with anger. BUt can;t understand why! The vacations we had were ruined due to his child & mother (calling every 2 hrs) > I don;t know what 2 do it was so much this 2 months than the last time the kid came.My hubby tend be more on his side than on mine , so the kid didn't obey me @ all, soo in a way it did frustated me & my other kids did notice the difference on previleges, time outs & take aways. So I still think is was not fair. So I am guessing that all this caused me different ..

2007-08-16 05:51:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not looking to spend a lot of money. I want to cap the costs at $1000. Any suggestions? I want a traditional and elegant wedding, which I know Vegas offers. No Elvis weddings or that sort.

2007-08-16 05:50:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

In the past hour, I have seen quite a few questions about problems with porn. It is wrong people, if you care about your spouse, you won't do it. Are you really willing to give up your marraige so you can look at naked pictures freely????? Child support, alimony, etc? If you would rather sit there and give time to some fake people rather than your spouse, you have serious maturity issues! Forsaking all others is the vow! The Bible states it is wrong to look upon a person in a lustful way. It's considered adultery! Fantasizing about someone other than your spouse adultery! argh...getting really pissed off at the world here, and going to follow any boy interested in my daughter to be sure he deserves her! if that makes me psycho, fine! lol!!! But I won't let her settle for some idiot who watches porn...!

2007-08-16 05:45:00 · 21 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 in Marriage & Divorce

What do couples enjoy best. The Whipped or the Cream?

2007-08-16 05:39:55 · 1 answers · asked by Angel_la_hollywood 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 05:38:15 · 12 answers · asked by Kiki 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I admit, there are times I have lied to my husband about petty little things, and I mean little things, nothing like large purchases or my where abouts etc. I know the consequences, but I still feel compelled to lie sometimes. Why is that?? Why would a married woman feel compelled to lie even a little to her husband? Could it be that we're trying to keep ourselves from being scolded like a small child, even if it means lying? Is it something that men use as control?? Any answers would be helpful, since I have a friend going thru this and I couldn't honestly give an answer, since I didn't know either. Thanx!

2007-08-16 05:36:18 · 20 answers · asked by hotmama1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i live in missouri, and there is this girl that lives in northern mexico! how could we start a relationship?!

2007-08-16 05:34:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating