My husband always wanted sex more than me for years. Well in the last year we went through some trouble, he almost left me (I accused him of having an affair, SAID he was not) so he was hurt and pissed. Well, through all this I realized how much sex means in a marriage need to be intimate a lot more. I rarely gave BJ's now he gets them a lot and I am the agressor now and not him. He acts like he does not care about it now and I do not why. According to him he wanted it for a long time and I did not so it made him not care and he is offended how much I have changed, he resents me in a way for it. So, I have tried to get him in the mood for the last 3 nights and he acts tired, like I use to.Last night I woke up at midnight and he was watching porn and I am sure about to masturbate. WHY if has a good looking wife in bed willing to do anything? I got mad and he yelled at me and sad I was being silly and insecure ! I do not get it, this is what he wanted and now that he has it, he does not?
2007-08-16
05:18:57
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peaches8866
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Marriage & Divorce