My guy tells me he can't finish (while we're having sex) any other position other than him bottom and me top. We've done all kinds of positions and he can only finish when I'm on top...
What the? He says there is nothing wrong with the other postions he just has never been able to finish and he takes longer to finish! Suggestions?
2007-08-16 04:53:46 · 14 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get better
2007-08-16 04:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
The destination isn't the important thing, it's the journey.
There are often times that I don't climax and it's really not a big deal. Lots of reasons too.
If he wants to, he will find a way and if you are willing, then it will be done.
Slight edit, I have found that anytime that she becomes too loose to provide sufficient friction to finish that a quick trip in the bum helps considerably.
2007-08-16 11:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by brettj666 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe thats the most stimulating position for him. I say try various more positions until you find different ways. I know you dont want to be the one on top all the time
2007-08-16 12:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by daddynard1010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to find smiler positions that make him feel the same as when you are on top.try a little dirty talk when you are in other positions,it sounds like he is concentrating on what he is doing and not the pleasure in the whole act of making love.
2007-08-16 12:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by thor71thor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a mental block he has to work on himself. Seems like he's gotten into a habit of doing things a certain way and has convinced himself that he won't finish unless it is that particular way.
2007-08-16 11:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lets make somethings clear realize that he is letting it be known to you how he enjoys it and is able to "finish" but , are you able to reach height, most guys are going to let you know what and how they want it but you know their going to get it...don't worry about it while your in action, make sure you climax, im sure he won't have any problems doing so....Lol
2007-08-16 17:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by marorog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want him I'll take him he seems like a good guy. I've been looking for someone like that. Does he go downtown? If he does that is good that's good, too. All kinds of ways excites me!!!!
2007-08-16 12:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Gidget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit back and enjoy the ride
2007-08-16 11:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what's your point, are you having trouble "finishing" in that position, if not then why are you complaining, and enjoy it.
2007-08-16 12:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you try them all, and leave the one with you on top for last..........and have fun trying....
2007-08-16 11:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say giddy-up cowgirl!
2007-08-16 11:57:44 · answer #11 · answered by P1D1T3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋