I feel alone...Every man,wants to be with me,but just because i look good...Help?!?

Answer 1

I have the same problem. They only like the looks & it's hard for good looking girls. They arn't really into getting to know your pesonality they are more fascinating with whats in your pants. Once they spot a girl thats cute, hot, or sexy they emidetly want to get with her. I don't mean get with her like go out and start a relationship, but more like one night stand kind of thing. A lot of guys are like that, but you gotta look out for them. Don't let that stop you from going out with guys though. The right ones out there & he doesn't have to be bad looking. The way you know he isn't just using you is when he looks into your eyes somtimes and at your face rather then mostly only at your body. If a guy stares into your eyes to long then you know he wants peice. The thing is that humans usually get shy when they really like somone, so they'll only look at you for a fough second then kind look down. They might be shy too. What out for those ones that look at you for a bit then look around to see if there are any other sexy girls then you know he's a player. Pay attention to their eyes, their eyes will tell you what you need to know.

Answer 2

Obviously looking good always helps with that, but looks don't last. You gotta keep searching, and hopefully you'll find someone that falls for your personality and the other intangibles that will always be part of you even when your looks fade a bit. I would say maybe take up some kind of activity or hobby where you will meet men with similar interests to yours that would extend beyond physical attraction.

Answer 3

Yes, looking good is a catalyst for men to take you into consideration, but it is not a factor to start a relationship.
You should just think about the last date, try to remember the convo, who said they only care about your looks, maybe they were all some small minded men? Dont give up, just move on and the time will come with the person who you really deserve

Answer 4

Set your standards higher.Don't give anything up(including emotional and personal info) until you know he's there for more than having you as a trophy.
Try meeting guys in places other than clubs,bars and the gym.Go to the library,museum, the coffee shop or to a place that your interested in and might find like minded people.
Good luck baby...want to go out some time?LOL

Answer 5

I can't say I've been in an identical situation, but your concern is a very real one. Just don't go out with any man whose interest in you is based on nothing except looks. Look for someone with similar interests and hobbies, or something other than simple panting desire.

Answer 6

wow you must be hot, but feeling alone is sad. Maybe you should meet someone over the internet somewhere? So this person can get to know you for who you are.
I dont know how you look, start with me, i'm a nice guy!

Answer 7

You can be more selective because of your looks, Be friends with the ones that you think would make a good friend and not go on a date with them until you get to know them better. You are fortunate to have beauty, take your time and be cautious.

Answer 8

I really do feel for you, but these guys are obviously very superficious creatures! Don't waste your time on them. If you feel lonely, spend time with your friends, take up a hobbie do anything that keeps yourself busy. Get to know yourself and make yourself happy from the inside out.

Answer 9

LOL you poor thing. Why don't you try the Britney bald look and lots of whorish make-up. At least you have a vice to get them in the door. Men think/see/feel with their eyes. They are logical thinkers, not emotional.

Answer 10

Learn how to say no. Remember, you're not alone on this one. There are many beautiful women out there.

Focus on what you want, and the rest should come naturally.