Family & Relationships - 16 August 2007

For anyone who has had many sexual partners before marriage and is now married, do you have any regrets? Does your spouse have any issues with it?

2007-08-16 08:41:38 · 11 answers · asked by poncholock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with this guy last night that I have wanted pretty badly for a few months. In the beginning, I pursued him but he just kept running away. So I got smart and acted disinterested......after a month of me not chasing him, he came after me.
So we hooked up last night. We did foreplay for like two hours......it was pretty intense because it was in a place where people could see us but that we would not be immediately noticeable. I guess I'm kind of an exhibitionist........I like when people watch. Then we went upstairs to my bedroom and fooled around some more but when it came to penetration, he just wilted. So like a trooper, I used my hands and mouth on him. I could tell he liked it because he said stuff like "you're amazing", sucking in his breath and of course getting hard. So we go to put a fresh condom on....I made sure to lubricate him using my tongue....serving a dual purpose of keeping him erect. Then he wilts again. We finally had to give it up for the night.

2007-08-16 08:39:09 · 6 answers · asked by Red 2 in Singles & Dating

he will be here from friday -thru -sunday

2007-08-16 08:38:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we are both aries do you think we are compattiable and will be able to stay in a relationship together

2007-08-16 08:35:36 · 2 answers · asked by Chanel B 1 in Singles & Dating

What does your man do that just drives you wild? It doesn't even have to be a sexual act - just something that he does that makes you realize how hot you find him.

2007-08-16 08:33:48 · 13 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has cheated on me in the past and has vowed never to do it again, however I do not trust him fully (he recently started going to a strip club because we just moved to a small town and there truly are no other clubs around here. He has never gone to strip clubs in the past)...How can I test him and see if he's being truly honest? I have thought about suggesting a threesome just to see what his response would be and if he says yes (which I fear he may) then I will know that he is not being honest in his stopping cheating vow. I want to know because if he is going to cheat again, I want to leave him, however I am worried to know what his answer will be and I am really worried that if I suggest that, he might one day actually show up with somebody or get a crazy idea. What should I do I need to trust him, but I feel the need to test him to see if he's being honest. Suggestions?

2007-08-16 08:33:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As we women get older our bodies change. Has anyone had or considered labia surgery. I'm very self conscience of my situation.

2007-08-16 08:30:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a broken heart.
and i need advice on letting go.

anyone have any poems or anything?

2007-08-16 08:30:03 · 22 answers · asked by omgitssrachx3 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for a few months, however remained in contact mainly as he wanted to stay in contact. I wanted to cut all contact with him but he was begging me not to. He was the one who broke it off with me. We have been arguing lately mainly because I still have lots of feelings for him and I get emotional. I asked him to call me on Sunday but he said he can't and I got really upset and told him that he should not contact me again. He texted back and he was pretty angry. We had arranged to meet up face to face in a couple of weeks but now he is now saying he isn't sure he still wants to meet. He said to give him a week to feel better as he needs time to digest our arguments. Why does he need all this time? I texted him today and asked him to be ok with each other but he told me that he hates being forced like this. He sounded pretty angry? I just don't know what to do? I am so powerless? He is showing me a wall?

2007-08-16 08:28:04 · 24 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how old were u when u got married?
i was 18.

2007-08-16 08:26:48 · 84 answers · asked by Vicky Z 3 in Weddings

i need some really good ideas for what to do after we get married at the corthouse. I was thinking that we could go to dinner with a few of our friends, or we could have a party back at our house but we have such a very small apartment. we were going to have a big wedding but we put it on hold till we have enough money. help!!!!!!!

2007-08-16 08:25:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My girlfriend was brutally raped 10 years ago. I did not know her then, but I want to be here for her now. I love her with my entire heart, but this can be hard for me to handle. She doesn't ever want to talk about it and she becomes numb(emotionally) when I touch her or when we become intimate. She flinches when I touch her and she has a hard time wanting to sex. She would rather not be touched at all. She is a wonderful lady and we want to spend our lives togerther, but how do I help her through this and become more touchy. I am a physical person and I love physical contact. She doesn't want to seek help, because she does'nt want to talk about it. It was really bad what happened to her. I want to be the one who helps her and stays by her side. That person took the most beautiful thing in my life and made her afraid to be close to anything. How do I undo what he did? How do I help her to feel safe? How long until the memories fade away?

2007-08-16 08:21:07 · 58 answers · asked by just me 1 in Singles & Dating

Can someone please clarify a issue that i have been wondering about, that is say i have a sister or brother by my mother, and both of us has different dads, yet if my brother or sisters dad has other children, who is my brother or sisters, brother or sister, what relative does it makes them to me.

2007-08-16 08:19:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How come you guys fear rejection? especially if you never had a girlfriend before or you are ready emotionally and mentally to get married ? and you want to approach or call a woman?

Do I fear ? nope. if the guy doesnt want me , then shame on him. he lost out on something excellent!

You men if you like someone or you just want to get to know a woman , call her to see how she is doing or ask her out. if she says no 2 times then move on... and sometimes if she starts to think hmmmm then she will approach or call you. cause u got her thinking.

2007-08-16 08:13:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 08:08:35 · 9 answers · asked by Geli 1 in Weddings

I have the night planned. Dinner and a comedy show but I need help with what to do during the day. It has to be fun. Good for a small group. Not cheesy and somewhat inexpensive. ANY IDEAS? help!

2007-08-16 08:00:19 · 11 answers · asked by lucky_seville 1 in Weddings

My husband and I have a friend that is about 7yrs younger than us he's actually one of our good friends younger brother who we call a good friend now! He is over pretty much everyday which doesn't give my husband and I anytime to ourselve's let alone our 3 young children. How do we tell him not to come over everyday we do enjoy his company but it is interfering in our marrige!

2007-08-16 08:00:16 · 1 answers · asked by Blossom 1 in Friends

hmm like, when the guy in question makes way more less than you do and occupying a lower position in the company...etc etc
would you feel attracted to them? would you date them?

2007-08-16 08:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by naruto's girlfriend 2 in Singles & Dating

Sunday night he texted me saying we shouldn't talk anymore coz of a argument we got into.

Come Tuesday he sends me a text that he is mad at me saying he doesn't like my sarcasm towards him. I told him I didn't know what I did and not to hold it against me. He then texted me wanting to come over my house and I didn't respond (I didn't want to see him)

the next text he sends he says I don't pay him any attention and has not wasting his time.

Last night he texted me saying good night (I didn't respond) then he sends a text an hour later calling me a faker. I was like next time I see you we will see and I told him goodnight. he responded saying you wont see me again. Bye! and immediately after that he texted Its cool I'm on another planter right now bye!

I asked him if he was aright he said he was asleep and bye to me. I just said goodnight and we haven't texted since then, which was only lastnite.

Is he begging for attention or does want to make me un-interested in him?

2007-08-16 07:59:48 · 49 answers · asked by MoMo 2 in Singles & Dating

when ur mad

2007-08-16 07:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been separated for a little over a month and I have been really devastated. We have an 11 year old son so I know that I can't avoid talking to my husband at all, but when we talk, I get really emotional and then start feeling depressed. I feel like I have all this anger built up inside of me and then end up going off the deep end and leaving in a mad rage. Then all I do is cry for the next 2 or 3 hours. We have been together for 18 years and I can count on 1 hand how many times that we have argued, but it seems like now we can't get along at all and I cannot handle much more. I don't want a divorce but he does, and says there is nothing I can do to change his mind and I can't make him be with me. All I need is some really good advice on how to get around talking to him about divorce issues. To me it is too soon for me to talk about divorce, because I am deeply in love with him and thats why I get so mad when I talk to him because it is always about divorce.

2007-08-16 07:58:34 · 12 answers · asked by btdt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am planning my wedding myself and the book store shelves are overwhelming!

2007-08-16 07:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by jennifersthegreatest 4 in Weddings

I gave him the diamond from my old wedding set (1st marriage). Tacky, I know. He bought a pave diamond band for $1250.

I broke off the engagement after catching him in several lies; one lie was about doing drugs behind my back. He did XTC and slept in a bed with a his best friend's girlfriend!! He says nothing happened but she accused him of touching her while she slept.

We both agree that I'm keeping the diamond. Should I give the band back?

2007-08-16 07:56:16 · 37 answers · asked by n C 1 in Weddings

I like this boy but he dosent really know me. how do i impress him?

2007-08-16 07:56:01 · 9 answers · asked by Amelia K 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy but he dosent really know me. how do i impress him?

2007-08-16 07:55:43 · 2 answers · asked by Amelia K 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with their father for five years, and we split in December. He hasn't spoken to us since then, which has really impacted my daughter a lot. I have a lot more to consider now. When should I let my childern meet a guy I am dating? What type of activities should we do together? Also, how will she feel if it doesn't work out with him...I am pretty confused as you can probably tell. I would appreciate any and all advise. Thank you!

2007-08-16 07:54:09 · 3 answers · asked by Autumn H 2 in Singles & Dating

I Have a boyfriend at the current time he is locked up for fighting (not nothing to do with drugs) anyway I he has been locked up for awhile, and I have been kind of lonely. So the other day I went out with a guy who I have been talking to for a couple of months. I haven't kissed him or anything we talk every night and we hug sometimes when we see each other. Is this cheating?

2007-08-16 07:51:24 · 10 answers · asked by baby_phat23 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy recently that has custody of his 2 small kids ages 2 and 3. Anyway, we were planning to go to this event which I figured that his kids were coming along with us anyway. Anywho, he was telling me that he couldn't find a babysitter and didn't know what he was going to do. Well, I told him to bring them along and he asked me if I was ok with that. I have no problems because its a package deal and plus I really wanted to spend time with him anyway. I met his children before and they're so cute and I like them - well I like children anyway.

My question is - Was I being selfish for wanting his kids to come along with us just so I can spend time with him even though I don't have a problem with them comimg with us?

2007-08-16 07:51:17 · 2 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

Which do couples prefer....? lol

2007-08-16 07:49:55 · 5 answers · asked by Angel_la_hollywood 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been dating over 1.5 years and for the past 2 weeks we've been unhappy mostly my issues I suppose. Anyways he's moving up here to go to college and so i think it's stress, financies, family, etc. We kept fighting and i asked him what he wanted. We love each other so much and he wanted a break. Not a sleep with other people but not talk or see each other break to reasses everything. I said no but then said do it because it's important to him. Now I can't seem to get on. I'm still crying hours later and I want to contact him. What should I do? I don't want a break and just want to see him and help him move into his apartment! It sounded like a good idea until now and I'm clueless, is a break the right thing to do, should I call and disagree? Our current deal is I won't do anything and he'll call when he's ready but I can't do that. ....HELP!

2007-08-16 07:46:44 · 24 answers · asked by misschick87 2 in Singles & Dating