Family & Relationships - 16 August 2007

Ok... so im kinda talking to this guy... hes very charming. We dont get to c each other often because he travels a lot and lives out state. I really like him. He's very well known....so anyways, I spoke with him today and he told me all of the girls he has been with (intimately) have been thin girls. Im not fat...Im thick....actually very proportioned with a really nice rounded butt that i ALWAYS get complemented on... yes, mostly by perverted guys and ex boyfriends. NEHOW... this guy told me that what he likes about me is the fact that im thick and im not like the usual skinny girls he dates. I asked him if hed preferred if lost weight, but he quickly responded that he likes the way i am. Thou, i feel i can lose a few lbs... specially since this is the biggest i have ever been. What do you all think??? do guys really like meat... or what is hes deal?

2007-08-16 10:39:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this guy out a WEEK ago, but we both already had plans for the weekend.... just wanted to put him on notice that I'd like to go out with him. He said "Yea :) I'll have to let you know when" Now... a week later... he hasn't mentioned it. Because he hasn't mentioned hanging out this weekend, is he ever going to ask me to hang out? Am I not being patient enough? Could I have to wait a few weeks for him to ask?

PS. He only has work driving privileges because of a recent DUI. Therefore, he wouldn't be able to pick me up.

2007-08-16 10:38:33 · 11 answers · asked by pfwqjkhk 2 in Singles & Dating

Read my plan and tell me what you think....

I've never spoken to him before but when I see him there next I'm going to give him a smile, Walk over to him and ask if I can borrow him for a second (Either ask him directly ''can I borrow you for a second please'' or say to his friends ''do you mind if I borrow him for a second'') and then just say I wondered wheather you'd be interested in going out for a drink sometime?

If he says no, I'll just say no worries and walk away, or if he say's yeah give him my number so he can call and leave it up to him.

What do you think?
And what do you think he will think?

2007-08-16 10:30:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im getting married in october at city hall family and close friends are going to dinner after my maid of honor wants to throw me a bridal shower but some people are saying i shouldnt have on because im not having a "wedding" is that right? i thought when you get MARRIED you get a shower not just when you have a wedding????

2007-08-16 10:14:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been dating this guy for about 4 months now and since I have moved away from relatives & is currently living w/ a pal of mine ( a girl who dates my cousin [who's incarcerated currently]) and it's like its hard for me to see him because of her telling my cousin everything about he & I. I am 22 and he 38 I go to college and he bounty hunts and works for the city as a supervisor. It is like when I call him or something it is like he doesn't want to talk like he use to. a few days prior to me moving w/ her I stayed a couple of nights w/ him. It was lovely!! I would clean and do chores around the house. Neighbors would greet me and attend to me. & its like this was what I was looking 4. Should I go see him personally to see what is going on or.....

2007-08-16 10:14:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK LIKE she is getting onn my last nevers! my older sis is like doing nuthing!!!!!!!! ever!!!!!!!!!!!1 at night she on the com and day out some were wit freinds! and my mom yells do sumthing usefull i do it every day! i clean and cook but my mom just cant see it so no im not speaking wit her! wut should i do?

2007-08-16 10:11:13 · 4 answers · asked by Julia 2 in Family

Ladys how you feel about a foot fetish and how would you react if your freind told you he had one. Also what is the best way to tell a female.

2007-08-16 10:08:36 · 2 answers · asked by breakthrough_usman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 10:02:55 · 25 answers · asked by xxemsxx 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been happily beautifully blessed with a wonderful, strong, man who loves me and is commited to me and my family of 4 children!! Married for 5 years and LOVING IT!! I often find myself alone in this situation!! Are there any married folks out there who can PROUDLY say: YES I AM MARRIED AND I AM HAPPY??!!!

2007-08-16 10:02:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is there anything else i can have my bf do with his penis on webcam other than masturbating and ejaculating? (he is away on buissness alot so we have 'cyber sex' on msn and he has a webcam) thanks! x

2007-08-16 10:02:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone been there? If so, please tell me about your experiences...

What do you know about the "Royal Village Honeymoon Villa Suite"? (It's a Butler Service room.)

We are thinking of going to this Sandals rather than St. Lucia/Antigua because we feel this one is a little smaller, not so party-party, and more luxurious.

Any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

2007-08-16 09:59:54 · 4 answers · asked by TraceyH 2 in Weddings

Me and my husband have known each other for over 2 yrs. We just got married July of this year. We have a 1yr old son. My husband is 38, and I am 20 soon to be 21. I got married because I felt it was the right thing to do , rather than live in sin. I love him, But the age difference is really starting to push things into huge problems. Our views are totally different, and sometimes I think its a good thing. I feel that we are the same in some ways. But then again we tend to bump heads on other things. Another thing is MY FAMILY DONT LIKE HIM AT ALL. I dont have any friends because I am not from this city. We moved here after Hurricane Katrina. I feel that I am too young to be married to someone so old, and settled in their ways. I know that he wont change his ways at all. He is getting older. I consider myself quite young . I feel bad because I should've gave it more thought but like I said I love him. I dont feel that counseling will help at all. NO RUDE REPLIES, YOU WILL BE REPORTED!.

2007-08-16 09:59:06 · 40 answers · asked by Tru_New Orleanian 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-16 09:57:49 · 460 answers · asked by Heart of Fire 7 in Weddings

I'm 36 and engaged to be married next year.

The problem is that I've fallen in love with an 18 year old intern from work. I broke my arm so this intern had to help me do stuff. She's smart for her age and makes me laugh like I never have. Although we've never done anything physical, she's obviously into me too. What to do, what to do?

2007-08-16 09:55:28 · 24 answers · asked by iblockidiots 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner is 38 and I'm 21. I love him so much and of all the men I've been with, he is by far the most amazing and loving one. I want to be with him, the only thing that i'm worried about time. I won't be ready for children until I'm finished all my post-grad, and that may not be until i'm 30! he'll be nearing 50 by then and... then what? Is that too old to have kids? I love him so very much since we met on a age-gap-relationship club http://www.beep.com/memberdateien/members/agegap/agegap.htm and want to be with him, but he has expressed fears that I may leave him in a few years and then I'll be fine, young still. He'll be middle-aged and so... If i thought that we would age well together I'd have no doubts... what do people think? has anyone been through this sort of thing before? I'd appreciate some input.

2007-08-16 09:53:20 · 11 answers · asked by bennie l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In my experience, it's usually the woman who gives up her career, social life, friends, etc. to take care of the family, while most times the man still acts like he is single and does whatever the hell he wants.

2007-08-16 09:51:27 · 27 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have heard this more than once from girls of many races: "Oh you be a great boyfriend but I don't black guys."

I mean of course to each his own. If you don't like someone as a person that is one thing, but women seem to think it is somewhat en vogue to not give black guys a chance.

And before the comments start the term black guys does not mean THUGZ.

Honest opinions.

2007-08-16 09:51:05 · 14 answers · asked by The Teacher 6 in Singles & Dating

This was supposed to be a temporary situation. We have no children yet. Everytime I tell my husband that I think it's time he moves out he says where is he going to go. He babies him and to top it off he is so dirty. I don't mind picking up after my husband but not another grown man. I feel like a prisoner in my own home and I can't even wear my lingerie around freely like I used to. I hate being at home because he is there. Is my husband not being a man by babing him and not telling him any rules or that it's time to hit the road?

2007-08-16 09:50:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if ur having sex w/ her and ur on her kissing her neck or whatever and you only have one hand up there on her cause the other one has to keep the condom from coming off...idk i would think u would want that hand to be free to right?

2007-08-16 09:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by booBBY! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I started liking this guy a little over a year ago and then 15 days later I had to move across the country. We emailed for a long time and I absolutely know that he liked me as at least a friend. We sent extremely long emails and he gave me advice, and when I told him I was having trouble making friends, he told me that no matter how many friends I have in Maine I will always have him in California. He suddenly stopped replying to me a few months ago. I don't even know why and I'm afraid to ask him. So:
1) Since he apparently decided I am boring and/or obnoxious (since he now ignores me) should I even still tell him?
2) How do I tell him without shocking him?
I am certain that I love him and I'm desperate to get this off my chest. BTW I met him on a church backpacking trip and realized I liked him four days later.

2007-08-16 09:44:17 · 1 answers · asked by †StrongAsDeath† 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-16 09:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by ConnorWilhem3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The Military Padre was in attendance.

2007-08-16 09:42:19 · 5 answers · asked by Marine798 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she makes her self seem so guilty when she wnats to hide everything. why does she do it?

2007-08-16 09:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know you shouldn't be but it happens eh?
i was extremely intimdated at first by my boyfriend, although he saw no reason for me to be. it's like you want to pass the test!

2007-08-16 09:38:43 · 6 answers · asked by Kipper to the CUP! 6 in Singles & Dating

Everyone in my family says I"m too sensitive. and my mom gets mad when she sees me crying. she hated him

2007-08-16 09:36:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

LOVED IT, had culture shock, or would highly recommend, also, have you brought your child with you and how did they adjust.....

2007-08-16 09:34:39 · 18 answers · asked by bck2liberty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

kissing is i think i want hot guys

2007-08-16 09:25:30 · 24 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi-i was just wondering for all you guys....
girls ask questions and wonder if a guy or guys will like what they're wearing, like, (just a fashion top. not slutty. not talking about that) But like, do guys really care how girls wear their hair, and if they like that top, or whatever. Do guys really care???? Cuz girls are always wondering that...i just want to know.

and plz do not say....um......"ya...if it shows off her boobs, or her butt" IM NOT TALKING ABOUT THAT. talking about real fashion.

ALL ANSWERS APPRICIATED, I REALLY WANT A LOT OF ANSWERS!!!!!

2007-08-16 09:15:43 · 3 answers · asked by XD 4 in Singles & Dating

What do youh find most attractive about a girl....is it realli the personality...?

2007-08-16 09:15:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my gf (who is the hottest girl in my school) keeps on asking me if we could have sex but we're only turning 18soon... so what should i do?should i really have sex with her?but im not ready yet....well some of my friends think its a great idea but some are just like thats gross.

2007-08-16 09:13:52 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating