Why does my girlfriend lie and feels like she needs to try to hide everthing she does?

Question

she makes her self seem so guilty when she wnats to hide everything. why does she do it?

Answer 1

it's definitely insecurity. she's afraid to lose you because she's insecure about herself and the relationship between the two of you. psychologically, it's either that, or she grew up in a home based on lies and has grown accustomed to the lying practice.

Answer 2

Maybe she was in a tuff household where she always had to be perfect all the time.

Are you overbearing sometimes or give her crap for doing things without you?..

I dunno if thats the problem but sometimes I feel like i have to hide things or skirt around answers to make sure i dont start arguments or hurt him. Not that im doing anything unfaithful or bad but sometimes people just need space.

You should ask her straight up. Good luck

Answer 3

i do it because you are so much into my bussiness like the questions i asked! i dont feel as though i need to hide everything. but why do you FEEL as though it is your job to KNOW everything? you ARNT CANT WILL NOT know more about me then i know about myself. GO GET A new hobby! your question sounds illterate. try perfect grammar and complete senteces next time.im not guilty why do u do the stuff u do?

Answer 4

Relationships are about trust. If shes hiding everything, whats the point? She could be cheating.

Answer 5

its a dumn way of going about things. she might want something serious with u but is going about it the wrong way without noticing. talk to her about. if she loves you shell stop hiding things from you.