help...!! youh boys out there...?

Question

What do youh find most attractive about a girl....is it realli the personality...?

Answer 1

The truth? Yes it is.

If guys just want brainless girls with good body, there's a company somewhere that makes realistic models of a human female and she will have sex whenever you want!

A girl needs to have at least some personality to really hold a guy. Personally I could barely talk to the most attractive girls I've attracted. I remember this horrible experience last year during my senior year, for like a month this reallly FINE girl was really into me, and I was attracted to her as hell but we just couldn't connect. I'm not saying she had no personality or anything, but when we are together, it just doesn't feel right. We went on dates, kissed, partied, nothing really felt right.

To this day I wish things could've turned out differently because physically, she was almost my ideal vision for a gf.

On the other hand, the girl I connected best with was someone I didn't even find all that physically attractive. At first I didn't even want to date her, but my friends pushed me into it (they think she's hot, I think she's too tall for me). But holy ****, the connection was insane! We could talk forever! Once something like that happens, you stop being shallow and you just want to be with the person. It didn't work out between us b/c I was too immature for a relationship back then (she had sex with a previous bf and I was a virgin and got intimidated), but yea, I mean girls please develop your character and your personality!

People like looking a big mansions and nice cars but that's only the surface. Once they get lonely living in a castle and get tired of poor gas mileage of sports cars, they'll realize they actually want a comfortable home with a reliable and efficient car. Bad analogy, lol, but you get my point. It's the girls with cute personalities that are the real treasures.

Answer 2

I'm a guy, and here's what I look for in a girl:

1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)

Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).

Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, doesn’t use drugs, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth

Answer 3

this is sad ... but their are a rare ammount of boys who are attracted to a girl by her personality
most only get attracted by the looks then they figure out about personality if the girl is really hot with a not so hot personality they will get turned off but the looks makes up for it so they are really shallow at times

if a girl is ok with a beautiful personality they actually might care but MOsT boys are attracted by the way someone looks witch is really sad

Answer 4

Yeah for me it is. I like a smart girl who's easy to talk to and you can joke around with. Of course, there must be a physical attraction but i like them short, tall, skinny, full-figured, blonde, brunnette, . . . . . . .

Answer 5

ok well loks are really the initial attraction but what really matters is personality that is definatly the most important for me

Answer 6

her eyes

Answer 7

nope...