Read my plan and tell me what you think....
I've never spoken to him before but when I see him there next I'm going to give him a smile, Walk over to him and ask if I can borrow him for a second (Either ask him directly ''can I borrow you for a second please'' or say to his friends ''do you mind if I borrow him for a second'') and then just say I wondered wheather you'd be interested in going out for a drink sometime?
If he says no, I'll just say no worries and walk away, or if he say's yeah give him my number so he can call and leave it up to him.
What do you think?
And what do you think he will think?
2007-08-16 10:30:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And also, which should I say....
Ask to borrow HIM
Or ask his FRIENDS if I can borrow him (He always works out with his friends!)
2007-08-16 10:35:10 · update #1
That sounds good. I think he will be happy that you are outgoing as you are.
2007-08-16 10:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you need to say that you want to borrow him for a second. I think that you should just walk up to him and say that you have noticed him in the gym and you wanted to introduce yourself and say Hi. Then ask him if he is interested in getting a drink sometime. I hope that this works out. Good luck!
2007-08-16 10:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by amy00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds flattering, but I question if it will work. What he thinks about it kind of depends on what kind of guy he is. If he's a player, he's either thinking "jackpot" or he's not interested. If you see him regularly, strike up a conversation first, flirt a little, and bail before he asks you out, or you ask him out. Then wait and see if you catch him checking you out the next time you see him in the gym. If he does, drop hints and see if he takes the bait...good luck!
2007-08-16 10:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by medulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That'll work, but since you're in a gym he probably won't have anything to write your number down with since he probably won't have his phone on him either. Maybe have your number on a piece of paper and say "Hey I've seen you around here alot and was wondering if you'd like to get a drink. Here's my number, give me a call."
2007-08-16 10:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by Katie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about just regular conversation a simply hi. if you go about doing what you said it sound like you urgent need some company. I would advice just start a simple conversation. find out what he likes to do beside going to the gym, if not rapist, killer, or he is hitting someone else, or maybe possible if he is not gay. (you mention he surround it with friends) take slow girl be patience but if another want you want one night stand go for it.
2007-08-16 10:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by franco vita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that its a good idea but he will most like say no if his friends are right as they will ask what u wanted and what he said!! so maybe try to wait until he is alone if ya can! and i think he will know what a confident girl u are. maybe u should give him a smile a little one. just try to get him to look at you so you know if he is friendly towards you!!
hope i helped!
2007-08-16 10:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by AlwAysAdreAmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that is being creative...when I'm "borrowed" at the health club it's to reset the computer on the treadmills!
2007-08-16 10:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT!!
Aw i'm getting all excited again. I made the first move on monday night and guess who has a saturday night date (me!!)
it was the most nerve racking and thrilling thing for me, making the first move and i totally recommend you do it now!!
plus, if he turns you down, you strut away like the hottie you are and feel great for having the guts to do it in the first place!
rock on!
2007-08-16 10:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may wanna ask to get somethin to eat, cuz some ppl at the gym are real strict about their health and dont drink,i dont know though, i think either way he'll like it, i know when ever a female is the one 2 ask me out it always makes me feel good
2007-08-16 10:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by bigjacka55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st thing that matters the most is your looks. are you hot? If you passed that. It's depends on a guy. Some guys think it's super sexy when girls make a move. Some guys like me doesn't like it when girls ask the guys out. So it depends on a guy.
2007-08-16 10:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by hahaiwon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why dont you just throw on a boa and ask him to come up and see you some time? How about snooping around to find out his status first. What if he's married and a cheater. What if he's gay?
2007-08-16 10:36:15 · answer #11 · answered by Kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋