Family & Relationships - 16 August 2007

Someone I know saw someone for awhile and during that time they they thought it was good, however, it did not last. Over time, they realized that it was wrong and they were used. For whatever reason, they still talk to this person from time to time. It seems pathetic to go back and be on speaking terms with that person and looks like they did not really regret it.

DRAGON 2008
"I BELIEVE IN U.S."

2007-08-16 07:46:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was hanging out with my buddy at the park and we were playing basketball with these kids we know from school. Well low and behold the girl of my dreams was hanging out with her friend their and was sitting with us while we were playing. You have to realize that everyone wants to go out with this chick cuz now shez recently single.....well the worst thing eva happened!! the asshole that was covering me (we dont like each other as ur about to find out) PANTSED ME!!!! Right in front of her..and i had no shirt on but just my TIGHTY WHITIES!!! If that isnt bad enough when he pantsed me i was trying to make a move to get open and accidently slipped out of my shorts completely!! He then pursisted to grab my shorts and hold on to them just to continuely embarrass me!!! Well it gets worse, as i stood their i actually (dont know why) got a ***** (i cant believe i did that in front of her!) well i was so freaked out by getting one i jus ran to my car and drove off! how am i eva going 2talk2her?

2007-08-16 07:45:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You have already tried breaking up in a nice way, but they still attach onto you and make plans to do things with you. You however, never want to see or here from them again. How do you break up with someone who is needy and codependent without ruining them? Help!

2007-08-16 07:43:58 · 3 answers · asked by Sally 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is living very dangerously, he's a drunk, and to my knowledge very deeply into cocaine.
He's been into drugs since he was 13 and he'd going to be 28 in Feb, but his life is just getting worst and worst. His personality is just disappearing, last time I saw him I barely reconzied him.
He has always had a problem with authority, he gets his back up when I've tried to talk to him before. And down plays and says things like "he used to do cocaine every few hours but, only rarely does it now" which I can't believe....of course." But you can't fight with him.
How can I approach him?? Any suggestions on what to say to reach someone like this?
If there's anyone out there that was steeped in drugs answering....what would you have listened to.
I KNOW I don't have much time with him......everything in me says he's almost reached the end of this lifestyle.....in the bad way. My heart breaks, he's the only sibling I have.

2007-08-16 07:43:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What the minimum height that you find attractive.

Also list your height.

2007-08-16 07:42:50 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in Burbank, Ca and i would i would like to know where i can find a strip club with both men and women? Me and my husband want to go but i don't want to get a lap dance from a girl i want a guy to dance for me and of course he wants a girl so it would be nice to find a strip clun that has both men and women....

2007-08-16 07:41:16 · 8 answers · asked by olive oil 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We were married in March and are having our reception in October. What shouls we wear? My husband has the easy part. I'm not sure if I should get something super fancy or just casual???? Also if it a pretty informal beer drinking party do we have to have assigned tables? Please help......

2007-08-16 07:41:12 · 14 answers · asked by beans_n_me 2 in Weddings

When I go to kiss my husband he won't kiss me back, telling me that I caught him off gurad. Its annoying becuase I want to kiss him! THEN when I AM leasting expecting it, he will try and make out with me or get sexual. I won't kiss him becuase its not fair how its always on his time. Why doesn't he want to kiss me when I want to kiss him, but he is all over me when I don't him to be!!! What can I do! Is there anything TO do?

2007-08-16 07:39:37 · 13 answers · asked by jmalin04 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a white gold wedding ring. I bought Avon ring cleaner and it works really well. I was just wondering if I can clean it once a week with this cleaner or should I not do it so often. If not how often can I clean my engagement ring??

2007-08-16 07:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by pinkjo14 1 in Weddings

My dad called me a stupid little ***** and an anti social freak. What should I do? Please help, thanks.

2007-08-16 07:37:51 · 9 answers · asked by Mags 2 in Family

Im not happy with my face apperance but I dont think im too too ugly. Everytime I encounter A mirror I keep doing face expressions or stances to make myself look better but sometimes it doesnt work. What is this called?? Its even hard when I excercise because I feel Im going to look the same when I loose my weight and feel like its not worth it. How can I come over this and be happy with myself?

2007-08-16 07:37:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 07:37:27 · 37 answers · asked by M 1 in Singles & Dating

Everything me&paul tried2do 2gether never worked out,4rm the apt we tried2get 2the people we dealt with2the bogus check he gave me2 the invalid credit card he gave me2pay billswith,2the lies he told me, 2the things he promised me, 2the money that never made it into my bank account. 2ALL the manythings i NEVER saw.Is this ALL a big coincidence?really bad luck or what? I have never seen any of these things he said. they were ALL just words. So, what do you do with a person like that? That U r always there 4 but theyR NEVER there 4u? When he didnt haveANYTHING, gas,food,place2sleep I made surehe had ALLofthat..now when i need a bill paid he cant even do that. It has been2many incidents,2many excuses..he always talk about50/50relationship..but when i took care of him when he needed it when itsmyturn 2need it where is he?NOwhere 2b found, NOwhere helping me&hesay its'cause i didNTdeserve it..HedidNT deserve iteither but u dont do stuffcause ppldidnt deserveu do it2helpRight?HelpMeUnderstand

2007-08-16 07:34:48 · 2 answers · asked by Fit 4 A King 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in love with him, too, but 4 days after he said it, I found out my cancer may be back. I'm really afraid of hurting him. I feel as though it's wrong to get into a relationship with him because of my illness, but I really want to be with him. I don't know what to do. Please help.

2007-08-16 07:32:32 · 22 answers · asked by Katie B 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 28 and I am 23 and we have been together for 3 months now. He treats me so well, we love each other deeply and plan to get married within the next couple years. He has a 7 year old daughter and I asked him what does he tell her when she asks him why he is not with her mommy. He said he tells her "I love your mom and she loves me but we do not understand each other and cannot live with each other because we argue all the time and that is not what we want for you...." I thought it was sweet but I can't get it out of my mind that he said that they love each other. Should I feel jealous or is this natural?

She has had a boyfriend for 9 months now so it's not like she is alone. Any thoughts or advice?

Thank you~

2007-08-16 07:30:36 · 24 answers · asked by HotJewels 3 in Weddings

Do men prefer curly hair on straight hair? Long or short? What about a womans appearence hooks you in?

2007-08-16 07:29:19 · 9 answers · asked by athenaowl101 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime i hang out with my friends or my sisters and catch guys looking at me. they look quickly to other women/girls next to me. do they imply that they find the other ones more attractive or just embarrassed that i caught them?

2007-08-16 07:26:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is 7. Guys at my work say that he's already thinking of girls in a sexual manner. Is this possible?

2007-08-16 07:26:27 · 36 answers · asked by jennifer74781 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so i went out with him for 11 mos then he brokeup w me
he told me his parents were gettin devorced adn he needed space
2mos later he went out w some girl who would always flirt w him when we were goin out

but idk a part of me still wants to be friends w him its been like a year and we havent said one word to eachotehr
is it too late?
how do i start talking to him?

2007-08-16 07:26:25 · 11 answers · asked by kiki <3 ducky 1 in Singles & Dating

In June, I met a guy, Aaron, at my friend's, Lauren, birthday bonfire. He was really cute, but I was too shy to say anything. I told my friend that day and left since I had work early the next day. In July, I ran into him again unexpectedly. I went on a walk with my guy friend Chris with his dog and we ran into Aaron. Aaron and I jsut waved to each other but that was it because the dog took off. At the end of July, Lauren told me that Aaron also thought I was cute. I got really excited because I thought he'd be into my sister instead of me. Last weekend, I saw him again at the movies. I wanted to go over and talk to him, but I was with my mom. I feel like I was given all these chances to make a move, but I didn't. I restricted myself. I really want to seehim again and actually enage in a conversation with him, but I don't know when i will see him again. Should I just wait to see him? What should I do?

2007-08-16 07:25:25 · 7 answers · asked by Aztec girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 07:22:37 · 37 answers · asked by Sarah J 6 in Weddings

you know I just can't get this girl out of my heart we got abit of history and we haven't seen each other for few years then evertime I see a guy holding her my heart hurts and when i think of it, it brings tears to my eyes sure i'm trying to work on it i'm going to join the police to become a cop ! but i feel like no-one cares so much about her like I do but hey what can I do ! I always had feelings for her what can I do about this ? I feel so alone without her and its hurting me that shes not mines and I swear this i'm saying this with tears in my eyes I MISS HER !!!!!!!!!!! just need someone to talk too

2007-08-16 07:22:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Does anyone have any good ideas for venues for getting married for an agnostic and a Catholic?? Definately dont want a registry office, but obviously dont want a church either. Struggling to find a happy compromise that is also special.

2007-08-16 07:21:09 · 26 answers · asked by purpletia2000 2 in Weddings

We did a summer program together but I didn't get his phone number, he liked me at first and I didn't like him but then I started liking him and he changed his mind about me. The program has two sesions I did the first but he did both, the second session ends tommorow. I might not ever see him again. What should I do??

2007-08-16 07:20:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please don't say anything about sex or anything sexual. Also I'm on a low budget.

2007-08-16 07:20:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy that we are interested in eachother and he was hitting on me one time if hes still into me at the next party

2007-08-16 07:19:53 · 2 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

he gets upset, he has real insercurity issues. he gets loud and bangs on the car, and yells and curses, he gets mad when i dont answer my phone as often as i should, he wants me to answer it as many times as he calls or text. and when im sleeping or reading or at the gym and i dont reply EVERYTIME he sends text messages saying a bunch of mean things, like "your pi$$!n6 me off" or "u get on my $#$#@& nerves". Isnt that rude? like i dont have a life, as if i sit by the phone every five minutes. i shouldNT have to jump every time he say idont have to let him know my every move like when i have 2pee or when i take a shower, read a book or go2the gym. do i? he seems so possessive as if he is my mom n i have2answer him and tell him what im doing every 5minutes. everytime we talk it seems as though we are going in circles and it never goes forward just stays the same. im tired of putting up with this..what should i do? should i break up with him? how can i make things better?

2007-08-16 07:19:17 · 4 answers · asked by Fit 4 A King 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

would you find a sporty and dumb girl hot or a smart know it all how loves sports?

2007-08-16 07:18:57 · 17 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Singles & Dating

When my friend was assualted (sexually) i was the first person she had told but now i dont know if she is lying or not.

I went through that too and i always always there for her i dont know what to think anymore because when she told the police paul(the one who assualted her) was denying it and kitty(her sis) turned on her the only ones who were there for her was her mom out of her family. So she then told me that it was just a dream that felt real i got mad cuz i went through it and her saying that it was real got to me it made me angry! but later on she told me that it did happen but she didnt want to tell someone she didnt want anyone to turn their back on her and have her family be mad at her if paul went to jail so she jsut dropped it and now i dont know if she was lying or not? i remember what she would tell me she would cry everynight and she was depressed sad and just wanted to give up i dont think i girl that would cry like that would lie but why wasnt it so easy for her t

2007-08-16 07:16:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay my friend ask this guy i had a crush on for a year if he like liked me and he said im not telling you. She asked again and said i wont tell her i promise and he said what ever you are going to tell her. Does that mean he likes me? Or that he doesnt like me and he doesnt want to hurt my feelings? I dont understand it. My other friends say that probably means he does but im not sure if they are just saying that. So i need your help!!
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2007-08-16 07:16:04 · 19 answers · asked by Meggie<3 1 in Friends