what can I do i can't stop thinking of her?

Question

you know I just can't get this girl out of my heart we got abit of history and we haven't seen each other for few years then evertime I see a guy holding her my heart hurts and when i think of it, it brings tears to my eyes sure i'm trying to work on it i'm going to join the police to become a cop ! but i feel like no-one cares so much about her like I do but hey what can I do ! I always had feelings for her what can I do about this ? I feel so alone without her and its hurting me that shes not mines and I swear this i'm saying this with tears in my eyes I MISS HER !!!!!!!!!!! just need someone to talk too

Answer 1

Come on man get a hold of yourself. that's why you are not with her now, " I MISS HER!!!" stop that. women are in abundance like pouring rain.

Answer 2

I completely know how you feel. I felt the same about someone. I had a major crush/ in love with someone and he would always pick girls that meant him no good. I never told him how I felt but I would cry almost every night. The song that got the tears really flowing was a song by Brandy, "Have you ever?" It really talks about what you are feeling.. But one thing you must realize is that you cant make her love you. If she doesnt see the two of you getting back together then you will have to let her go. Crying will seem like the only constant in your life but you got to do what you have to do. You could tell her how you feel. But be prepare yourself either way. Good Luck. I wish the best for you.

Answer 3

I have been in your shoes--and I know it hurts. I fell in love with someone, but he did not love me and eventually became distant and I suspected he was interested in someone at work. I knew I had to part for my own good--it took me 1 1/2 years to finally get over him and now I am married to a great guy and happy.

Dont expect it to be easy because you have invested some of your life with her---let yourself move on and dont fantasie about her as time goes on---if you were meant to be, she would be with you now.

You have a new profession ahead of you and you need to have your head on straight---just have faith in the future, that you will find another--maybe when you least expect. Allow yourself some tears, but try, try to forget and time will help you with this. Put your mind in other interests, and stay with friends---maybe use this time to really get to know yourself, you will find out how strong you are-just use this time to help you in place of going into a depression.

You will find another---and you will forget all about someone who hurts you so. Put your time, emotions and energy into another who returns that love and wants to give back to you. Your old love has moved on---you need to too.

Answer 4

You are a man right? Then grab a pair and tell her!!! The worst she can say is not interested and that's where you are now but you will know and can move on. Be a man and quit sulking do you have this problem when asking out a stranger that catches your eye I bet not.

Answer 5

wow
your in love with her but just be there for her act like a best friend and then when shes not dating ask her out


if shes not with anyone go to her and ask her do u wanna go on a date with me

tell her ur feelings, how much u care for her

Answer 6

Why not tell her that you miss her? You should tell her how you feel. Maybe she will start looking towards you and not to some other guys.

Answer 7

Be a good friend 2 her and ur reward is a valuable friendship or more :)

Answer 8

try talking to her. She might still like u to. U never know.

Answer 9

Are you just feeling guilty because you are the one who f'd it up? Why are you all not together? Why are you idealizing her?

Answer 10

talk to her