Whats wrong with me?

Question

Im not happy with my face apperance but I dont think im too too ugly. Everytime I encounter A mirror I keep doing face expressions or stances to make myself look better but sometimes it doesnt work. What is this called?? Its even hard when I excercise because I feel Im going to look the same when I loose my weight and feel like its not worth it. How can I come over this and be happy with myself?

Answer 1

It sounds like you are very insecure with yourself, but you are not alone. Alot of people feel the same way as you. You just need to focus on you and not what you think everyone else thinks of you and build up your confidence level. Just keep working out and take care of yourself.

Answer 2

How about counseling? Even if you are unattractive, remember that beauty is only skin deep. Another suggestion is to stop looking every time you go by a mirror. My counselor said to look into the mirror and say I like what I see. She said putting positive things into your mind is good for you. So, try the positive route instead of the negative route. I am not attractive (NOT just my opinion) but I have a dynamite personality. I am funny, compassionate and have a lot of friends. What are your good qualities? Do you have friends? Praise yourself for the things you have that are worthwhile. If you need work in those areas go to it because you need self worth. Good luck from an okay ugly duckling.

Answer 3

Every morning, when you wake up, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful. And then don't look in a mirror for the rest of the day! lol... just sounds like you need a little self-esteem booster. Try a new style, hair style or makeup. Sometimes all you need a small change to make yourself feel good.

Answer 4

You are going to be who you are no matter what you do or what you change. Things may change to where you feel slightly different about yourself if you change your appearance, but it is not going to fix the problem. Going to a therapist may help with it. Just changing your appearance, going to talk to someone, and accepting yourself for who you are is all that will help. The sooner you start, the better off you will be. It will take a lot of work. Every time you look into the mirror, think something positive of yourself no matter how small it may be. And do it every time.

Answer 5

dude, u need to chill out. no worrys i was the same way. i had no confidence in myself what so ever. and people started to find out, and u know, i actually find out who my real friends were, cause they would alwaysa encouraqge me. u may think u dont look good, but someone might think u look great. try telling yourself that when u look in the mirrior, that the person staring at u will always be there, so u have to get used to it. and if that doesnt work try having some alone time for yourself. do something u really like to do, go shopping, play basketball, sleeping, cook, sing, whatever makes u feel good. i hope that works. email me and tell me if that works. [e-mail]

Answer 6

Sounds like you just have self esteem issues concerning your physical appearance - if you were gorgeous you would probably still think you were ugly. I agree, try focusing on the things about your face that you like, and get more comfortable with what you see in the mirror. As you gain more self-confidence you'll notice a difference in how you see yourself.
And, faces usually change a lot when gaining/losing weight.

Answer 7

who has made you feel insecure? you are very handsome, everyone is beautiful in there own way..go out and find that goodlooking girl and i bet she will give you a chance, there is somone out there that is looking at you and checking you out and you dont even know it. if you are insecure there are many things you can do to uplay your looks, guys can look sexy without even trying..go out and buy those new Jordan's or the new Nike's girls like guys thats clean cut and clean, smell good and look nice. do you do those things? do you have a hair cut? nice clothes and shoes and smell good and fresh breath? and are you doing something with yourself? like going to college? school? working? also if you want to work out?! im telling you to go ahead and do it because it will make you feel better about yourself trust me its an energy boost and you will more confident because i started working out for the past few months and it made me feel so much more better..im telling you if you got all these things oh yeah and a good attitude and just smile and be happy with a nice personality i KNOW you will attract all the right people. look at the world with your head up high with confidence. nothing is wrong with you handsome!!!!! when you show the world you are unhappy and insecure and negative thats what ppl see those vibes and dont want to be around you! change your attitude and what i said and TRUST me things will be a complete turn around for you. Good luck! you are making a mountain out of a molehill! stop lookin in the mirror feeling sorry for yourself start looking at the things you are good at or that looks good about you! look at your best qualities start being more positivie..good looks start with a good attitude...keep your head up!

Answer 8

I think you have a self-esteem problem, you aren't totally dissatisfied with yourself but you are worried of what people may think of you. The only way to overcome this issue is to just accept yourself. You have perfect health and strength and there are many people that would kill to be able to do the things you may be able to do. So no matter what your situation at least when you wake in the morning you can look at yourself in the mirror (no matter how you class yourself), if you woke one morning without the ability to see only then you might be grateful for what you have now. Don't wait to reach this point for you to value yourself as beautiful............beauty is in the eye of the beholder and everyone is entitled to his/her opinion but you don't have to make that your Bible.

Answer 9

well there is something about us all that we dont like! but telling urself ur ugly or just thinking negative things bout urself aint good. AT the end of the day u r who u r and unless ur getting plastic surgery ur stuck with it for the rest of ur life. so id suggest u be proud of urself who cares what others think really. just live ur life look aint everything n im sure u aint even that bad put up a picture n ask people u may be surprised!

Answer 10

We live in a society that makes us believe that we have to look like the people in magazines and on TV. While some people do look like that, 99.9% of the population is no where close to as attractive physically, so just know that you're not alone and that the right person is out there for everybody.