he gets upset, he has real insercurity issues. he gets loud and bangs on the car, and yells and curses, he gets mad when i dont answer my phone as often as i should, he wants me to answer it as many times as he calls or text. and when im sleeping or reading or at the gym and i dont reply EVERYTIME he sends text messages saying a bunch of mean things, like "your pi$$!n6 me off" or "u get on my $#$#@& nerves". Isnt that rude? like i dont have a life, as if i sit by the phone every five minutes. i shouldNT have to jump every time he say idont have to let him know my every move like when i have 2pee or when i take a shower, read a book or go2the gym. do i? he seems so possessive as if he is my mom n i have2answer him and tell him what im doing every 5minutes. everytime we talk it seems as though we are going in circles and it never goes forward just stays the same. im tired of putting up with this..what should i do? should i break up with him? how can i make things better?
2007-08-16 07:19:17 · 4 answers · asked by Fit 4 A King 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't see how you can make things better unless you just let him control your life. I know if I were you, I would break up with him. Try to keep it civil, because he sounds like he could be stalker material. This guy has some major issues, don't let him drag you down with him. Move on, you haven't found Mr. Right yet and if your busy being controlled by this guy you may miss Mr Right when he shows up!
2007-08-16 07:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mistymay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u no wot my man does similar things his just angry cos of what happened in his childhood n im understanding. to a point! wot i done is sat him down looked him in his eyes held his hand n sed, 'babes i love u so much n i would do nethin 4 u u no that, but the way ur treating me has to change u scream n shout when u could talk, u moan when i dnt answer my phone but most of the time i leave my phone where it is to go toilet or to make a tea n theres no reason for u to act that way u no i will call u back. the way ur going on i really cant live like that n ur gonna have to do something bout it because i aint staying around for it n i mean it. i dnt wanna leave u but if things dont change im gonna have to u'l give me no option babes!' n he made the changes. just take him by the hand n make eye connection n speak ur heart. if he dont listen then im sorry but he aint the right guy for u although u'l have to give him some time to prove himself n be patient.
good luck girl
2007-08-16 07:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriend is kind of like your guy.sit down and talk to him make him understand that by doing all that cinema that kills the love you have 4 him and if he really love you he have to respect you and your choices like the same way you respect his.if he doesn't understand GET RID OF CE FILS DE PUTE because one day he might get rid of U and i don't mean by leaving BIG FORCE girl and keep your head up MALIKA
2007-08-16 07:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whooaa you've got a controlling, temperamental guy on ur hands. lose the jerk.
2007-08-16 07:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋