ok so i went out with him for 11 mos then he brokeup w me
he told me his parents were gettin devorced adn he needed space
2mos later he went out w some girl who would always flirt w him when we were goin out
but idk a part of me still wants to be friends w him its been like a year and we havent said one word to eachotehr
is it too late?
how do i start talking to him?
2007-08-16 07:26:25 · 11 answers · asked by kiki <3 ducky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on its just going to bring you pain and anguish. Its not worth it. There are other people out there. Seriously.
2007-08-16 07:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by meetbleek23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your motives for still wanting to be friends with him? Are you hoping to rekindle the romantic relationship? Is he still seeing the other girl?
Of course it's not too late to talk to him. You don't need a reason or an excuse. Give him a call or send him an e-mail and just say, "hey, it's been awhile, how are you doing?"
Just be ready for any outcome and don't have any expectations about what might happen. He may have been thinking about you all this time also, and just have felt like too much of a cad to contact you. Or, he may not have thought about you at all and may be perfectly happy having a life without you in it. There's no way to tell unless you talk to him.
Best of luck whatever you decide to do. :-)
2007-08-16 14:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by kyeri y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether it's too late or not remains to be seen. If he isn't dating anyone....call him up! If you don't know whether he's dating someone or not...you could call him anyway...just to say hello...and find out.
You sound a bit insecure though.....you need to be strong and learn to like yourself more. Become the person you've always wanted to be....then he will come running after you!
2007-08-16 14:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, I say this in all kindness, leave him in your past and move on. He doesn't sound like he was that into you and the "parents getting a divorce" was just a convenient excuse for him to bail.
2007-08-16 14:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Done Cryin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds way too late, but you should approach him and maybe ask if he'd like to get a soda somewhere & just talk about things.
2007-08-16 14:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never to late to start talking just the next time you see him or whatever bring up a good memory to start the conversation and you never know maby your love will re kindel
2007-08-16 14:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by h_evers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him find someone else time to move on
2007-08-16 14:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just surprise him and say "hey". dont be romantic or anything cuz he'll be trying to get away. just be a friend
2007-08-16 14:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he wasn't using the divorce as an excuse to break up with you? i wouldn't bother.
2007-08-16 14:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
2007-08-16 14:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋