Family & Relationships - 16 August 2007

i was being mean

2007-08-16 07:06:44 · 1 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents think everyone online is a scammer and i met a girl online. I am 17 and she is 17 and we met online on this website called interpals. We started out as friends and now we are going out. She lives in MN and i live in SC and next summer i am planning to go see her but i need to warm my parents up to her but i have no way i can. I need serious help. I mean i have been talking to her on the phone and she is a nice girl. She sounds like a 17 year old girl and she seems to have a nice family. I dont know how i should break the news to my parents. I love her and She loves me and i dont know what to do.

2007-08-16 07:06:36 · 78 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

And strokes it, what does it mean and what should i do?

2007-08-16 07:04:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 07:01:52 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a wedding to attend this weekend. I'm hoping to save a little money and wear something I already own. I have a navy knit dress and a red knit dress. I plan to dress them up with accessories, but is the color navy ok? I'm questioning the red dress because her wedding colors are red and white. The wedding is at 2pm, we live in a rural town in Virginia and the wedding isn't over the top, but not a cheap wedding either. Just trying to save a little money, but would appreciate honest opinions.

2007-08-16 07:01:24 · 25 answers · asked by Madmas 3 in Weddings

Alistair Begg is the Senior Pastor of Parkside Church in Cleveland, Ohio. This is a good teaching on marriage.
http://www.truthforlife.org/site/News2?abbr=lst&page=NewsArticle&id=5902&news_iv_ctrl=1102

2007-08-16 06:59:47 · 3 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to find these people's last name out, but I only know their first names and what they do for a living. Where can I find their last names?

2007-08-16 06:58:31 · 1 answers · asked by :) 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I turn 18 in a month and I'm moving out. Is there anything i need to do legally to leave, like signing any papers or anything? or can i just go.

2007-08-16 06:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by kate 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I knew for a while that this guy liked me, but he never said anything. I guess he likes the fact that i have always been there for him when he had girl problems and such.

Just recently his best friend sent me a message on myspace saying...."What would you say if (he) likes you?"

I really don't know how to respond to that. I know the obvious answer to this is "yes" or "no". I'm not sure really....i just know that we are good friends like it already is.

I need help responding to "i like you."
I don't wanna give a bad reaction or anything you know?

2007-08-16 06:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by Brenda R 1 in Friends

My husband is giving me the silent treatment; no conversation, no sex, nothing. He says the famous line "it's not you, it's me," & that he's just really stressed lately (new job, moved to another state). The problem is he has started frequenting a strip club and although he has not cheated on me he say's he is going there to have a few drinks, and relieve stress. He told me I could go with him (to see for myself that there is nothing going on), but I do not have anyone to watch our child. I believe that he does not want to cheat on me now as we moved here for a fresh start, but he has in the past. We have also been through marriage counseling which really did nothing for us. How can I trust him again because we truly do not want divorce and have been together so long that we won't. I am really wondering how does a person let go of the past and regain trust after it has been broken in a relationship?

2007-08-16 06:53:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The sexual tension between me and this man grew so strong that others said they could feel it when they entered the room.
Both of us are in relationships. We talked about going ahead having sex and then knowing that we would never speak or see each other again. He then said, "Then I don't think we should have a PHYSICAL meeting." He also said, "Twenty years from now I want you to be proud of me and yourself."

To this day, the tension is still strong.

2007-08-16 06:51:13 · 3 answers · asked by willow 1 in Singles & Dating

I order pizza frequently, and my wife and kids always end up having a part of the pizza. The problem is that I'm ordering the pizza for myself (I can eat a full pizza will no problems). I don't want to order extra pizza for them, I just want to order one pizza for myself. How do I tell my wife and kids this?

2007-08-16 06:50:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-16 06:48:11 · 6 answers · asked by ♥babycomeback♥ 2 in Family

My husband ignores me. His best friend (a coke addict) gets in my face and screams at me all the time, my husband does nothing, he works "for himself" so he has no schedule, I work full time at a real job, he drinks everyday and I feel super neglected. I never lived with him before marriage (only cause I was re-cooping from a bad accident) but we dated for 5 years. I feel hopeless and so depressed. I've discussed divorce with him but he WON'T communicate with me at all in regards to any issues I'm having; I'm at a loss I don't know what to do, I hate where we live, I'm starting to hate him and I don't even know how to go about a divorce. Help! any stories, words of wisdom please advise.

2007-08-16 06:46:55 · 19 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Let’s say you and you intimate partner are having a conversation where you become upset by something trivial (i.e. a tv show or video game). In order to work through these emotions of frustration you reach out to your partner to discuss how you are feeling. Instead of being empathic, your partner abruptly turns to you and coldly states “I don’t care”. Is that a sign that your partner really doesn’t care about your feelings, or just the topic you were upset over? How did it make you feel? What did you do about it?

2007-08-16 06:45:57 · 20 answers · asked by Odayin 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to a casual beach wedding where they say we shouldn't wear suits, but since it is outdoors and might be chilly, they say we can bring a sport coat.

I don't have a sport coat. I only have suits. Can I just bring one of my suit jackets and wear it like a sport coat?

I don't even know the difference between a suit jacket and a sport coat. They all look the same to me.

And would navy blue be a good color? Does that go with everything?

2007-08-16 06:45:00 · 7 answers · asked by introversive_guy 3 in Weddings

i need help on how to do something ineed a video i know there a site where you can watch step by step on how to do anything for free you want but i forgot it so if you know any please help

2007-08-16 06:44:14 · 1 answers · asked by nina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so last night, my boyfriend and I went out to see the new Bourne movie (Which was fab!) We sat in the car afterwards and just chatted for a while.
Before we knew it, our t-shirts were on the floor and we were in the back seat going crazy. (Perhaps it was seeing so much action in the movie that did it? ) Anyways, he took off my bra and gripped me so tightly and so hard.
It was great, but this morning I woke up and my breasts are bruised. It's like I've been beaten, but it wasn't like that at all..

Can anyone give me some advice on how I can get him to be more gentle? How can I know how hard is TOO hard? As I loved the feeling at the time....

Thanks in advance.

ps, don't ask me to find another guy, I love him and I've never met anyone who can satisfy me like he does.

2007-08-16 06:44:08 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 06:43:15 · 3 answers · asked by thediva007 2 in Singles & Dating

I do and dont. I always get soo moody and feel as if I dont fit in. I only have once nice sec. cousin who is very caring and thats it lol. how sad.

you guys? oh yeah the best part is food.duh.

2007-08-16 06:41:48 · 6 answers · asked by ♥dO yoU loVe iT♥ 1 in Family

Okay so my boyfriend thinks i'm a virgin because thats what i told him...but the truth is that a couple of years ago i got forced to have sex/raped and i hadn't told him about that. I dont tell anyone, its not something i like sharing. I was obviously going to tell him but i wanted the time to be right...I have no idea where from but he confronted me that he knew that i was lying about being a virgin. So i just told him the truth (this was through texting)...He FLIPPED out, hes not even replying to any of my other texts right now or answering his phone.
this is what i said: "i wanted to tell you when the time was right.."
and he said: "When was the time right? Right after i fell in love with you. and why would you lie to me :(. *****..omfg. Later."


Please give em advice on what i should do ? :[

2007-08-16 06:41:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are working on a very limited budget where the food is the most expensive item. I am thinking of only offering deli meat sandwhiches and some finger foods. We're not having a "traditional" wedding or reception. We're treating it as more of a party than a traditional reception. We will have alcohol, ice cream sundaes instead of cake, a dj and dancing, but we're steering away from your normal wedding traditions outside of a first dance and a wedding party. Would this be bad ettiquiette?

2007-08-16 06:40:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have this great boyfriend .. he understands me well,, he knows what's going on in my mind,, he knows how 2 calm me down when am angry,, basically >> he knows me well !
although i have other guy friends,, no one understands me like he does ..
but the problem is that i find it a bit hard 2 communicate with him .. he's a bit strict about how i dress & where to travel & who am i with ..
so is this something 2 worry about ??

2007-08-16 06:40:13 · 3 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Singles & Dating

or a woman that doesn't have as much as you. Do women that are financially independent and have a car and a home indimidate men?

2007-08-16 06:40:12 · 5 answers · asked by hanna 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to get this brand of flowers from JoAnn's called Silk Vision, and now they only carry a few of them and I can't find the rest of the flowers I need. So I am looking to see if anyone knows a website or the name of the company who makes them. Oh, and I did call the JoAnn hotline or w/e and they were pretty stupid and didn't know anything lol

2007-08-16 06:39:57 · 9 answers · asked by Beffy 2 in Weddings

I have 2 stepsons (5 and 8) and my husband and I have 3 kids together. A 1 1/2 year old and four month old twins. Lately, my husband and I are having a lot of problems and I am wondering if I am out of line. He owns his own business and works generally from 8 to 5. He is on call on Monday and Tuesday nights but has not had any calls in months on his nights. I do the laundry, cook dinners, do all the cleaning, do everything with the kids, get the groceries, errands, garbage, drs., pay the bills, everything. He keeps the garage clean, and does the lawn. I have been asking him to help me more around the house and he is very upset about it saying he needs to relax. He comes home, i get his dinner, and he watches tv and goes to bed. In the meantime, I don't sit down, I don't even eat dinner until 10 when everyone is in bed. I feel sort of slighted but if this is what other stay at home moms do, then I need to stop feeling so resentful and be more appreciative. Please help.

2007-08-16 06:38:31 · 16 answers · asked by shelby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

See i want my best friend as a main maid (of sorts not just a brides maid) but she's not married , my other good friend wants to be a main maid & she's married , but my best friend has helped me out alot & so has my other friend , i want my best friend to be what part ?

2007-08-16 06:36:49 · 8 answers · asked by kristi o 1 in Weddings

ie. i've been run train on before

2007-08-16 06:34:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 06:33:34 · 11 answers · asked by Stephanie G 2 in Singles & Dating

This boy likes me and i like him alot but he has a gf. he really likes her 2. but we kissed and he asked me out and i said yes with out thinkin about the other girl, the other girl has now found about us and what we was doing behind her back and is tell her bf to finish me but he doesn't want 2! cos he really likes me! so he said we should date but not tell anyone is that a good idea?? cos i really like this guy and he likes me i don't want to loose him. what should i do help please thanks

2007-08-16 06:33:16 · 3 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Singles & Dating