Sunday night he texted me saying we shouldn't talk anymore coz of a argument we got into.
Come Tuesday he sends me a text that he is mad at me saying he doesn't like my sarcasm towards him. I told him I didn't know what I did and not to hold it against me. He then texted me wanting to come over my house and I didn't respond (I didn't want to see him)
the next text he sends he says I don't pay him any attention and has not wasting his time.
Last night he texted me saying good night (I didn't respond) then he sends a text an hour later calling me a faker. I was like next time I see you we will see and I told him goodnight. he responded saying you wont see me again. Bye! and immediately after that he texted Its cool I'm on another planter right now bye!
I asked him if he was aright he said he was asleep and bye to me. I just said goodnight and we haven't texted since then, which was only lastnite.
Is he begging for attention or does want to make me un-interested in him?
2007-08-16 07:59:48 · 49 answers · asked by MoMo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FYI: I AM 22 AND HE'S 20.
2007-08-16 08:00:18 · update #1
he wants you to dog after him and it sounds to me like he has someone else and when they turn him down he turns to you put the man in his place
2007-08-16 08:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by cathycongeniality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly if I was you I wouldn't be in this relationship!! He's begging for attention and doing it in the wrong way! he seems a little crazy if you ask me! Just be careful! I had a relationship like that! I broke up with him he continued to call and when I would ignore him he just got angry and crazy! I just would listen to him and have a mild conversation! Eventually he got to where he called less and then just stopped calling! Sorry you have to go through this! Good Luck!!
2007-08-16 08:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by silverokie19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds really immature, and if he reallly liked you that much he would not be acting like that. He is playing mind games and he sounds like a lot of drama. Don't text him and do not respond to his text, or if he text you again just tell him you do not think it is going to work out. Simple as that, you are free from the drama and potetial heartache. Next time be really picky with whom you would like to incorporate in your life, you do not need all that confusion and drama. Remember you control who leaves and enters your life, so be Cautious, and extremely Picky!!
Good luck and lose the "drama"
2007-08-16 08:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was going to ask how old are the both of you but i see 22 and 20. sounds like he is VERY immature. Maybe you should find someone your own age. Keep ignoring his text let him know you dont want to continue to play games with him. because thats what it sounds like to me. A GAME. thats what guys play. that was stupid for him to say he doesnt want to talk anymore because of an argument, guys can be so stupid like they are the only guy on earther, wake up honey! there are plenty fish in the sea! let him know hes replacable! you dont have to deal with that so why are you!? stop entertaining it! hes doing BOTH begging for attention and making you uninterested obviously sweetie! stop playin his game
2007-08-16 08:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter. He is still immature. He hasn't gained enough experience yet. Doesn't know what he really wants. I would dump him because he is not ready for a serious relationship yet. As far as your communication problems I would suggest reading. "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". It will give you a little insight on the differences in communication between the sexes.
2007-08-16 08:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by bummer101467 <2HeartKnight> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a 20 yo going on age 8 dork who has no clue how to communicate with a woman. Find an older guy. You will be less frustrated and have less goofy crap to deal with like your current bo is producing.
2007-08-16 08:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is Schizophrenic or Bipolar. If I were you I would stay far away. Tell him he told you to leave him alone and you are just following what he said to do, then if I were you I'd change my #. Good luck...If it gets worse like him showing up at your house you may need to call the police. He sounds out of his mind, seriously...
2007-08-16 08:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he wants you to pay attention to him. He's playing games and being confusing (sending mixed signals). I think that you should just tell him straight out as to how he's making you feel (not through a text). And ask him if he wants you not to be interested anymore...because that's how you're feeling with his actions.
It just sucks having to deal with bullshit... Good luck. I hope I helped.
2007-08-16 08:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an immature idiot to me. Either he is on some serious drugs or he is just flat out stupid. Either way you can do much better!!! Try for someone a little older and more mature.
2007-08-16 08:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Chelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking on the phone or in person. This texting is one sided.
He sounds a bit erratic in his messages. So, you might really want to think about whether you want this relationship.
2007-08-16 08:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by 354gr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's just messing around. he might care about you some, but really not enough to be straight with you.... he is probably a little bit of a drama queen (or king...) and he doesn't sound like the kind of guy you'll really want to be with. talk to him in person and if he keeps dodging and being stupid then get rid of him because he's not worth it.
2007-08-16 08:06:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋