Is this normal? *Guys or Girls*?

Question

I was with this guy last night that I have wanted pretty badly for a few months. In the beginning, I pursued him but he just kept running away. So I got smart and acted disinterested......after a month of me not chasing him, he came after me.
So we hooked up last night. We did foreplay for like two hours......it was pretty intense because it was in a place where people could see us but that we would not be immediately noticeable. I guess I'm kind of an exhibitionist........I like when people watch. Then we went upstairs to my bedroom and fooled around some more but when it came to penetration, he just wilted. So like a trooper, I used my hands and mouth on him. I could tell he liked it because he said stuff like "you're amazing", sucking in his breath and of course getting hard. So we go to put a fresh condom on....I made sure to lubricate him using my tongue....serving a dual purpose of keeping him erect. Then he wilts again. We finally had to give it up for the night.

He seemed so embarrassed! I felt so bad for him. Us girls don't have to worry about maintaining an erection....all we need to do is get wet and a good lube can be an acceptable substitute! He told me that it was because we were fooling around for too long of a time beforehand. Is that true? I am worried about this being a recurring problem.......it is a very uncomfortable situation and I like my sex fun and worry-free.

Answer 1

i find that absolutely normal

Answer 2

He is one of these guys who only likes oral. No, he is not normal.

But the good news is you are fine and there is nothing wrong with you, the trooper that you are.

Answer 3

yummy yummy sound like you are doing it right, he needs to get control on his end.never went limp unless she was not good looking. ive been with some that were not that good looking

Answer 4

it's normal, but emotions and comfort play a big part in it. it seems like a mental thing.

Answer 5

This is just as normal as any porno.

Answer 6

Get a room!!!!