For anyone who has had many sexual partners before marriage and is now married, do you have any regrets? Does your spouse have any issues with it?
2007-08-16 08:41:38 · 11 answers · asked by poncholock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One should never have regrets....you should only try to see the good in every decision that has led you through life...even the bad ones.
Yes, we all have events and decisions in our pasts that, in hindsight, we would have probably done differently...but all of those things have eventually led us to who we are now...and who we are with. I wouldn't trade the woman I'm with now for anything...and we both have "Pasts" that we aren't totally proud of...but they've led us to each other...and I'll never regret that!
2007-08-16 08:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by MACHNGUN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you do, the older you get, the more the regrets will add up upon your soul. So just accept them.
As long as you ALWAYS do the next right thing, and be the best person you can be, you should be able to keep the regrets to a minimum.
Just make sure you are always being honest with yourself. The easiest person for you to fool is yourself. Being honest with yourself is another great way to keep all regrets to a minimum.
Good luck.
2007-08-16 15:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ...no one should ever REGRET anything they did before they get married or got married. That is your life, mistakes and all, either you'll learn from the mistakes and do things better or you won't ..... It's all about choices !!! This topic of conversation should have come up BEFORE you got married because any spouse that has issues with it now has to live with it....
2007-08-16 15:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by partygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both my partner and i had multiple partners before marriage. we both do not regret anything. i honestly would not want to marry someone that i didn't know i was sexually compatible with first.
2007-08-16 15:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i regret not having sexual partners b4 i got married.
hell i regret the marriage itself
2007-08-16 15:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No and no. The experience has helped me pick a great spouse.
2007-08-16 15:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that everyone has a regret or two. Don't sweat it. Everyone makes mistakes. Just be faithful to your mate and everythign will work out fine.
2007-08-16 15:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No - neither of us regret our pasts or each other's. We are thankful that we were both responsible and careful though.
2007-08-16 15:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by JVar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no regrets....no issues...we talk openly about our past involvements....honesty and openness help in all relationships
always remember, one cannot change the past -- only the future
2007-08-16 15:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes because my kids paid the bill of this divorce
2007-08-16 16:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋