In the past hour, I have seen quite a few questions about problems with porn. It is wrong people, if you care about your spouse, you won't do it. Are you really willing to give up your marraige so you can look at naked pictures freely????? Child support, alimony, etc? If you would rather sit there and give time to some fake people rather than your spouse, you have serious maturity issues! Forsaking all others is the vow! The Bible states it is wrong to look upon a person in a lustful way. It's considered adultery! Fantasizing about someone other than your spouse adultery! argh...getting really pissed off at the world here, and going to follow any boy interested in my daughter to be sure he deserves her! if that makes me psycho, fine! lol!!! But I won't let her settle for some idiot who watches porn...!
2007-08-16 05:45:00 · 21 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That doesn't make you a psycho. If more mothers were like that maybe less teenage girls would be having sex outside of marriage and getting knocked up, and getting a couple STDs as a bonus!!!!!!!!!!!! The world is full of freaks and bad people because less and less people are listening to God and His laws. It's nice to see someone with moral values out there.
2007-08-16 05:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Snow 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You said it all if someone is that much into porn that they choose that over their relationship and allow it to tear up the relationship then they need help. It is really sad for the person having to deal with something so worthless out of someone that feels there is no wrong in it. It is when it affects a relationship and it is unacceptable for the other person for any reason! Porn distorts the true meaning of sex and the loving intimacy you mean to have in a real relationship when it takes first priority over someone else's feelings.It just shows you how low a mind can sink into the gutter and for some viewers the idea of temptation. Not everyone looking at it sees it in the same way there is a fine line between curiosity and allowing it to take you over the edge for it to trigger more than some mean it to. It surely does not depict reality in the real world of marital intimacey and can cause more problems than one when a partner does not fit it's fantasy. You are totally right in your views of it for me so I agree with you.
2007-08-16 06:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So I see another Porn Nazi is in the building.
During WWII the Nazi's out lawed porn as one of their first steps to their road to power.
First you get the moral majority behind you and then you use that momentum to suppress more and more things. They didn't start off right away killing Jews. They took baby step. Eventually, the entire country was is fear of being turned by their own neighbor for the smallest infraction.
BTW, what will you do if you daughter is the one that watches porn? Deciding what is right should be consistent regardless of the people involved. Anything less is hypocrisy.
2007-08-16 09:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A "porn again" christian I see? lmao
Sorry, but I fail to see how occasionally looking at naked pictures of people having sex is going to hurt my spouse, or make me give up my marriage. It's like saying that a glass of wine with dinner on Saturday night is going to take me down the path of alcoholism... a little absurd, no?
And if you have never EVER looked at another person (clothed or naked) in a lustful way while you were married - well, you need your brain examined. Your must be missing your amygdala.
Get off your cloud.
2007-08-16 05:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Porn that someone else who might date your daughter looks at makes you want to be psychotic and you say fine?
Wait till you count the cracks in the pavement and try and fix that!
The bible says many things but acting psychotic was never in any of the passages I've read.
2007-08-16 05:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Fixguy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. My boyfriend and I watch porn together and read porn fiction together. We pick out ones we know we would enjoy. Maybe you need to see porn as a way to help give ideas in bed. Sex can get quite boring if you do the same things over and over again. I have a few friends that are married couples and they watch porn for the same reasons. And they all have been married for well over 6 years and are very happy.
2007-08-16 05:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know what your question is and as far as your daughter goes I am not sure how old she is nor how you are going to know if the guy she is with is interested in porn but, good luck to you.
2007-08-16 05:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
King David surfed from the house top, liked the view... Caused some trouble sure, so does gossip, hatred etc... I would image David, a man after God's own heart would have been a good catch for any lady and definitely not considered some idiot...
2007-08-16 05:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by HowAboutIt 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thank you for expressing your beliefs - but not everyone sees it that way. My hubby and I have been happily married for 20 yrs and we both enjoy the added pleasure porn brings to our bedroom. We are both professionals, have 2 healthy, happy adult daughters and are considered by most as a "normal" suburban couple. But we do enjoy the kinky side of things and porn adds excitement and entertainment to us.
And I resent the fact you in essences are calling my man and I - idiots.
2007-08-16 05:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I just don't see why you are making a big deal out of porn. I think those who do are insecure with themselves in some way. Just because someone watches porn doesn't mean they don't care about their loved one. Get over it
2007-08-16 07:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by Nicky 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋