My friend used 2 date this guy a few yrs. ago for like 6months. He was her first real everything. Recently she started dating this guy who she knew for many yrs., but jus so happens 2 b friends w/ her ex as well. Though her & the new guy only been dating 4 a couple of wks, she really likes him. Wht should she do?
2007-08-16 06:05:13 · 20 answers · asked by T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friend should just do what she wants. If the new guy is friends with her ex, then he probably knows how the relationship ended. She must have ended it alright if new guy is going to trust her. She only dated the first guy for six months, so they probably weren't engaged or married. So, let your friend do what she wants. As she grows older, she'll learn a deeper meaning of what it is to "really like" someone. As her friend, it's your job to support her (as long as you don't think she is doing anything damaging to herself or others). And by damaging, I don't just mean hurt feelings. That is going to happen sometimes.
2007-08-16 06:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by baklavakay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its been a few years since she dated the first guy... that is more than enough time to fully separate from that relationship. As long as she is not trying to stir up some reaction with the first guy it is okay for her to become friends with number 2. She must be very honest with herself because men talk and it can eliminate any chance she has of ever re-kindling anything with #1..
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2007-08-16 13:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by eagleatlast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should tell guy #1 that she wants to date other people and not call him any more. She should understand that many many people will look great as long as she does not date them but a little while, then they will reveal their warts as well as the good parts. It takes 2 years of steady dating to see all the bad as well as the good.
2007-08-16 13:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe break up with the other guy first before dating someone else. It's ok to date someone else, but you might want to break it up with the other guy first.
2007-08-16 13:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You...woops...I mean SHE should just keep dating this guy and see if hes the type of guy she wants to be with. Its sad that shedated his friend before him, but that stuff happens.
2007-08-16 13:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by JohnB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem?
Is the ex jealous?
Work it out with the guy she likes
2007-08-16 13:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no issue, just tell ur friend to keep dating the guy if she likes him.
2007-08-16 13:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Always you 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well shes not wrong cause she cn be friends with her ex...........but theres nothing to do if you really like someone your dating just kiss NOTHING MORE.
If he doesnt make her happy and her ex does she should get back together with your ex n break up with the guy shes dating.
She should be with the one that makes her happy.
2007-08-16 13:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by *nErVoUs lAuGh* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to date someone else especially when your ex is bestf riends with the other person and you dont want to break up theirr friend ship. i wouldnt ry it at all but its upto her what makes her happy.
good luck
2007-08-16 13:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure the ex has moved on. if she is happy with this new guy, than be it. life is too short.
2007-08-16 13:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by kc321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋