My husband told me not to leave the house while he was out of town. I did go out, and now there is "proof" out there. I am fearful my husband will go after my companion. He already told me not to make him break out the bat on this guy. What do I do?
2007-08-16 06:05:10 · 25 answers · asked by AJPierzynskis' 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did I say "cheated" people???
2007-08-16 06:16:41 · update #1
ill kick his ***
2007-08-16 06:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you need to leave. If your husband is threatening using a baseball bat. I ti time to go. What kind of control freak is he if he you can not leave the house. I think you are better off with out him.
I am not sure if you had an affair or not but in any event, you should leave your husband and figure out what you want.
2007-08-16 13:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Willie J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's messed up that you are in a marriage where one of you is telling the other they can't leave the house. You two need to sit down and talk. It doesn't matter that you went out as long as you are honest about it. Yes, there is proof. But, so what? Are you not allowed to go out? Why are you letting your husband make rules for you as if he were a dictator? Please, for the both of you, sit down with him and tell him why you are feeling as you are. If he is violent, and it sounds like he is, then please divorce him and move on with your life. I know that is much easier said than done, but honey, we all know that abusive relationships hurt us on the inside as well as the outside. Be true to yourself. You have the rest of your life ahead of you, so be good to yourself and get yourself out of this situation: either by talking to your husband, or, if he won't allow you to talk or can't handle it, by leaving. Do it for you. This is not what you had in mind when you wanted to get married.
2007-08-16 13:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by baklavakay 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you said he told you not to leave the house, I thought he might be controlling and abusive. But then you end with indication that he has good reason to not want you to go out... you've been cheating on him...
If you're going to cheat, you should end your marriage.
I suspect your husband is an abuser and you're a cheater. BAD match!
2007-08-16 13:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you are cheating on your husband while he is out of town?
Well you have yourself in a pickle, I would tell him what happened because he is just going to find out
2007-08-16 13:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by spagirl23188 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well did you have some fun....send me an email and tell me what all you did and how is the husband going to find out...he sounds like a bad husband to tell you to stay in the house while he is gone....let me know more.
2007-08-16 13:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So i think youre saying that you cheated on your husband while he was away and he may have foubnd out? Well, just keep denying it over and over and over..no matter what proof he has. Call you one of your friends of better yet, a family member and have them say they were with you that night.
2007-08-16 13:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would he tell you that you can not leave this house. that sounds controlling and over bored even if you are cheating. who is you companion is it a lover if not then why would he go after him?? it sounds like their are bigger problems besides you going outside even though he said your not allowed to
2007-08-16 13:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you think you can still work things out with your husband just sit down and have a talk with him but if you think you are so much in to this proof then go for it
2007-08-16 13:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a restraining order against him. And leave the house immediately. Your marriage to this guy should be over, for many reasons.
2007-08-16 13:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a divorce....If you feel the need to cheat then obviously you don't love the guy. So just get a divorce and be with the guy that makes you happy!
2007-08-16 13:11:09 · answer #11 · answered by Heather J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋