OK some one please explain this to me my sister is a really rude.mean. and a major glutton?

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but still she cares for noone but her self she doesnt help around the house and gets what ever she wants my step dad just gave her 100 dollers and i got nothing she get 400 when ever she needs it
and im the good child. i help around the house im nice to everyone. and i still get next to nothing with my family. why is this what have i done in life and when ever i try to expilan this to my mom she doesnt belive it

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Because like most family units, yours is just set up to survive. And since there isn't any great purpose that allows you guys to thrive in society, your just going thru the motions. Because of this only the squacky wheel gets the grease so to speck. So your sort of being neglected just because you can get with the program. Since she isn't and making it hard, she gets compisaded for it, because thats the only way they know how to deal with her, on top of that chances are she gets more attention being that way then your way, and thats what she is after. Its classic dysfunctional family dynamics, blame society, also blame the lack of purpose within our society. Your only true fix comes from indulge the ignorance, or fixing it, the chioces is yours, do you what to beat them or join them? I had to make the same choice, and I think you can figure which one I made, it was the road less traveled but it made it so those I love get to share in the benifit. Which is to forgo there own ignorance and accept there intellegence. It doesn't happen over night and its something you do everyday which what makes it so important, anything less then that, is well what you've got.....