why is it so hard to find the perfect boyfriend?

Question

im not looking for a guy who is perfect in every way, i actually like flaws in people,
i just mean why is it so hard to find the perfect boyfriend for me. the perfect guy for me, does he even exist, and will i ever meet him.

there are so many men i will never meet in my life, what if i miss him.

this kind of thing worries me. i have a boyfriend right now, but he isnt the one for me, well i dont think he is anyway...

I feel bad for staying with him knowing that i dont want to be with him forever, is that a really cruel thing to do?
im only 20, however he's 22.

Thanks

Answer 1

I'd say that if you don't see a future between you two, let him go... You're not being cruel, but you're not helping the guy either... He's comitted to you when you say there's no future. Let him go and find someone that he can build a future with.

Just have patience... I am also 20 and looking for someone. I haven't even been on a date in almost three years. They say to just have patience and someone will come along...

Answer 2

It's very hard to find a bf/gf that is perfect for you. eHarmony helps you find matches, if you want to do that. But usually, you can't find your perfect match, or soul mate. I can't give much input, considering I can't find a girlfriend myself. All I could say is to not give up.