This is my second marriage, we have been married for 3 years. My husband is a wonderful man in many ways, he is a good father to my children as well as to our son who is 2. He is also very affectionate but completely lost interest in sex! He is 38 years old, his sex drive used to be brilliant (every day he can manage at least once) but for the past 2 years or so once every 2 or 3 months would be a miracle! What is wrong with him?? He hates talking about it he thinks I only make problem worsen by discussing it with him. We tried cialis (type of viagra) it meant to be strong but it didnt work! Can anyone help me?
2007-08-16 01:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by Nemo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Alright, I'll give you the answer that will cure your husbands lack of sex drive. Tell him to get a prescription for testosterone. This is the sole male hormone responsible for sex drive. Your husband's testosterone level is low, thus the decline in sex drive. A bottle of testosterone cost just a little over $100 at Walmart and other stores with pharmacies. One bottle will last around 2 and 1/2 months...so it's relatively inexpensive. Inject 200ml/mg in the buttocks once ever week to 10 days. 5 to 7 days after the first injection the following will happen. Your husband's mood, his overall feeling of wellbeing will dramatically improve, his enery level will increase. He'll start thinking of sex all the time during the day like he did in his younger years. He'll get erections during the day. He'll want sex once a day for certain.
Viagra and cialis can't do this. Testosterone is the king of male hormones and millions of american middle aged men use it. It's almost like the fountain of youth. There are no side effects except for the postive ones your looking for. I and my 76 year old father have used it for years. It's awesome! Email me if you want to know more.
2007-08-16 02:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can be a medical issue - high blood pressure, cholesterol, etc. or if he's on any meds, that can be an issue. It could just be a low sex drive - men peak at 18 = by the time they are 38 - i would guess they would slow down a little. on the other hand, women don't peak until 35 - so their is a difference in men and womens wants and needs. start reading up on it and see if you can get him to go to the dr. for a checkup
2007-08-16 02:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the Cialis didn't work, there are others. Some of those drugs do not work for everyone. He should at least give Viagra a try.
Above all, get him to a doctor. It could be an indication of a physical problem (prostate, etc.) that needs to be addressed.
2007-08-16 02:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Somethingtotry 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not mention what he does for a living. Okay, he is 38. When was his last physical, complete including the blood work up. In men with high stress careers, and that can be anything depends on how the person reacts, HIGH BLOOD pressure starts. Very few outer symptoms, that is why id is called the silent killer. Get him to the Clinic for a complete check up.
2007-08-16 01:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by bootsontheroad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Get him to the Dr for a check up
it may be high Blood Pressure.. decreased testosterone levels, or mild depression..all can be controlled
2. Find ways to help him relax, take some of the burden off him, a calm home, etc
3. Help him find something to get excited about, sports...Muscle cars...collecting..etc
4. Don't nag him about his decreased appetite..nagging will not increase desire or performance
Above all else, Let him know that you love him unconditionally...Brillant between the sheets or not
good luck
2007-08-16 01:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by bopddbop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, after a while and a certain age SOME men, tend to have performance issues. If you don't think it is a health problem, which you may want to ask him about, then maybe he is stressed out. Or maybe get creative and wear a wig, or strip for him. Keep trying. Most men
never get tired of sex.
2007-08-16 01:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by non o u biznis 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in case of you/he dont want to see a doctor let him try viagra, just start from 25mg dose. Cialis may work/not work for somebody
2007-08-19 03:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a doctor with him and find out what is going on here it could be a medical problem.
2007-08-16 02:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hubby is going to have to be honest with you about his sexual desires. A lot of times our husbands don't open up to us sexually because they think we can't handle what they want. In order for him to honestly open up with his feelings you are going to have to put you feelings aside and not judge him. If he is anything like my husband he doesn't want to upset you. Honesty is the key.
2007-08-16 02:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by missblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having same problem myself... let me know if ya figure out what to do as i am completly stuck...
i want sex, he doesnt, there is no health probs. no cheating, yeah im sure... i ask what the prob may be. try to talk about it..
your question sounds like my life to the letter...even the kids... his age is 42, ia am 32... we are really compatible, i give him compliments to boost his ego.. i just dont know anymore...
2007-08-16 01:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by smurfette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋