Can you guys really have meaningless sex with a girl for over a year.
How can you do that?
I was in love, and still am, with a guy who rocked my world, but i found out he had a fiance. The fiance and i found out about each other via a text msg i sent him, she found it and then called me back the next day when he was at work. She was very understanding and we talked for ages about what he had put us through.
Whats up with that? Can men really have sex with a women for over a yr and not care about her and have a fiance?
2007-08-16 01:21:46 · 8 answers · asked by Purity 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the lady is attractive and healthy, if the sex is fun, if she doesn't make life difficult, then I could probably go on having meaningless sex with her for a long, long, long time.
However, for most of us guys, even meaningless sex can lead to us developing feelings. Sometimes love comes first and sex follows. Sometimes sex comes first and love follows.
The fact that there was a fiance involved besides another, and he wasn't honest about it, means that he is a sorry individual and should get no more lovin' from either one.
2007-08-16 01:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! It's called having their cake and eating it too!!
Just be glad you both found out now, before things went any further between you and this guy, and before his fiance said "I do"!!
Their not all like that, believe me!! Don't give up on men because of this one bad seed. Just be more careful next time (as I am sure you will be) and watch for the signs.
Good luck!!
2007-08-16 08:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree with Rock, some guys may do that, but I thIink most guys would feel shame. It obviously differs, but I personally couldn't do that.
2007-08-16 08:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT EVERY GUY IS LIKE THAT YOU KNOW....
i would feel guilty even if i kissed another girl, and i would have to tell my gf... i would feel too guilty to keep it from her, and probably buy her loads of flowers and ask her to forgive me. but still i woudl never and.... I AM A GUY
2007-08-16 08:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by rock 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Possible, although it would be hard for me. Think he probably just treats you like a tool. Stay calm.
2007-08-16 09:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by yongchunhon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. You understood the problem.
I think you were gullible enough. If you stretch your legs, what guy in earth will not get into it?
Now, concentrate on your studies and career, and avoid guys for at least a year. Time will heal.
And never the repeat the mistake again.
2007-08-16 08:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Yup, they do it all the time.
2007-08-16 09:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by whymewhynow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup.... we can....why? because we just do that. really no good explanation. we just do.
2007-08-16 08:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by big H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋