2007-08-16 01:41:53 · 22 answers · asked by Diana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Of course if you are attracted to the persons word and photos. Years ago, people would fall in love just corresponding.
2007-08-16 01:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find that it is possible, but very difficult. Online, it is easier to get to know someone because there are very few awkward moments. Conversations flow, and just about anything can be said without having to worry. I've found that I get to know the REAL person faster, especially their personality.
The difficult part is allowing yourself to have feelings for them. You have never met them, and aren't 100% positive they even are what they say they are!
I met my ex-girlfriend online, and it deteriorated rapidly... But I should've known, because all the things that ruined our relationship were discussed online before we even dated.
I have met another wonderful girl online about a month ago. She doesn't live as close, and nothing may ever come from it, but I do think that I am beginning to have SOME feelings. People are people, and you can't treat them as an object... Even through a computer screen.
2007-08-16 08:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's possible to feel something for them... but I would never consider myself "In a relationship" with someone I had never met. Some very happy couples have met online, but you need to get to know this person, in person, before you make any decisions. Everyone is different online, in our own personal ways... And you really never know when it's an online meeting. So, take the time to get to know them in person... and don't let yourself fall too fast right now, wait until you have spent sometime with them before you go making any decisions.
2007-08-16 08:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by joedudez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. I think it can happen on line more so cus you see what each other is like in writing. It's like when some one you date writing you a love letter you fell it deep cus you see there feeling wrote down on paper. Makes it more tangible. Also look at how many people end up marrying the person they met on line.
2007-08-16 08:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by ynot_chas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's weird. I can't understand how two people can be in a committed relationship if they have never met in person. Someone could be stringing someone along, too. How would you know? Maybe they think it's love.... Get out and meet some real life people.
2007-08-16 08:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Fly girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is possible and happens all the time...look at all the men marring the women from Russia and PI, the divorce rate for thou marriages is 1/2 of what it is for the US as a whole.
2007-08-16 08:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by pugetsound1973 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - though whether you'd feel the same & if you met them in person & would be compatible in 'real life' could be different.
But it is totally possible! I knew of a couple who met online by accident (he sent an e-mail to a wrong address, she replied to let him know, they started corresponding over e-mail.... & so on & so forth.....), & now they are married!!!
2007-08-16 08:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by anna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. Most times it turns out the person one grew to care for doesn't exist. That all one thought true were actually a bunch of lies. Fabricated by a person with no morals.
2007-08-16 08:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. Have had several affairs online with women. Have met a few also. You just have to be careful and make sure you know who you are talking to,
2007-08-16 08:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's possible that that someone will charm you or something. i mean if the someone is good with words and literacy, it shouldn't be too hard for him/her to flatter/please you. but you have to know who you're dealing with 'cause it might be dangerous might be a rapist or something. but i do know some couple that are husband and wife who met in the internet and decided to meet up with one another, they fell in love. i'd say meeting someone in person is BETTER and SAFER.
2007-08-16 08:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by Regina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋