When we go to her drs appointments the doc and I cut up, he laughs at me all the time and we joke around. My fiance tells me he thinks the dr. is flirting with me too, but I don't know. I kinda wish he was. What do I do and do you think the doc might be crushing on me as well like my fiance says he is?
2007-08-16 02:05:01 · 14 answers · asked by Angela A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The reason I am asking is becasue if he is flirting with me I need to find a new doctor for my baby, I can handle how I feel, but if he IS flirting too I don't know if I could handle that knowing I have a crush on him
2007-08-16 02:15:48 · update #1
Get a job.
2007-08-16 02:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything!!!!! It's nice to get extra attention from the oppisite sex (especially one who wears any kind of uniform!) but leave it at that. Why jepordized any kind of relationship you have with your boyfriend because of a fantisy? Nothing will come of the flirting with your daughters doctor, also, how does your daughter feel about that? We have to set examples for our children, no matter what their age is. Look at the future, is the doctor going to leave his wife, risk his career all for a little flirting? I highly doubt it. You could always find another doctor too. That way your mind won't get the best of you and your boyfriend won't get upset when she has to go to the docs. Good luck.
2007-08-16 09:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Broken Wings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, just enjoy it for what it is - a break from your boring day but fantasizing about your kids dr. Lucky you - my kids were always seen by men about 100 years old who had the personalities of dirt. I wouldn't take it any further than that - he sounds very charismatic and probablly has a "great bedside manner" and treats every mother the same. Plus, he is married - so leave it in your mind.
2007-08-16 09:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is common for married men to flirt. My job entails a lot of interaction with the public and I find married men flirt quite a bit although they remain committed to their wives. I would be flattered but wouldn't take it too personally.
2007-08-16 09:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Eyed Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with a harmless crush, but it sounds like you want it to go further. You need to sit down and think about what it would do to his marriage and your own relationships if something were to happen between the two of you. It's just a crush.
2007-08-16 09:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by leaptad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well every woman likes to be admired because it makes her feel good. It is always good to be appreciated by another men about our appearance, charm etc. I think this is the same with men too. But going any further only complicates things. Because you do not know if your doctor thinks "differently" about you. If you think that your fiance is really disturbed or hurt because of the situation I think you should stop to go to him.
2007-08-16 09:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ardelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you may want to find another Dr anyway just in case. You do not want to do harm to your relationship so I would be pro active and go ahead and find another Dr
2007-08-16 09:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by spagirl23188 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, he's married and you're engaged. Would you want some woman taking your fiance away from you? Why would you want to cause someone such heartache? And you need to rethink your engagement if you're fantasizing about some other man.
2007-08-16 09:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it makes you feel good to think he is interested in you, but it could be that he's just a flirt.
2007-08-16 13:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it a fantasy. He is married and you are about to be. Sometimes fantasies are better when they arent real because you can make them be whatever you want them to be.
2007-08-16 09:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by mable3691214 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋