Family & Relationships - 16 August 2007

Well my best friend is really fun and I love her to death, but some things really tick me off.. really bad.

For one, she is really negative. She hates everything about herself, and I tell her to be positive and she says 'I won't lie to myself' and there's a difference between lying to oneself and having CONFIDENCE, but she just can't. How do I help her? Her being negative brings me down, too.

And second, she is a goody-good. I'm not saying I rebel, but I occasionally swear and I drink coffee and I'm mean sometimes and she doesn't like any of that and she gets all upset when someone else does that and she's constantly saying 'no, thats bad' and stuff and it drives me insane.

What can I do, or should I just ignore this stuff?

2007-08-16 15:11:32 · 6 answers · asked by _Viv_ 2 in Friends

Ok Im japanese and I`ve been datting this guy for almost 9month. He is an American.
He is going back to States in 2month :( I really love him and I wanted to go with him but I guess its not gonna happen.
Well my question is since I know I can`t be with him after he left, should I still be with him until the end (the day he leaves) or I should break off this relationship now???
I really don`t know...... I know either way my heart is going to be break. I just wanna know which is more painless???
Its really hard for me right now cause every time I see him all my emotion comes up and starting to think about losing him from my life. I don`t know I can handle all about this.
Please give me some advice.
Thank you for your time to read this.

2007-08-16 15:04:42 · 9 answers · asked by livemybe2 1 in Singles & Dating

I rented a factility for my wedding ceremony and reception that holds 250. Thinking about it now I will only have about 50-60 guest. Is this place too big and will it look silly?

2007-08-16 15:03:42 · 4 answers · asked by mudpie 2 in Weddings

I am having a sit down dinner at my reception. my fiance and i aren't exactly "close" with the pastor. We've only had 3 counseling sessions with her plus of course the rehearsal and service. I know not all Officiants come to the receptions but we are asking and if she say's that she will, where would be a good place to seat her and her husband? I don't want to seat them with the other venders(photographers, videographer, Dj). You get the idea. Oh, that brings up another point, where do they sit?


I marry my sweetie October 20 07

2007-08-16 15:01:28 · 6 answers · asked by mom to be 6/27/09 3 in Weddings

2007-08-16 15:00:24 · 16 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this person, right when summer started. It was going good, they said they were interested in me as well and we talked a lot. There was one problem though, they were already dating someone else. I didnt know what to do, so i just kind of chilled and kept talking with them. We were a little while into summer when they were out of town for about a month, we were originally supposed to hang out when they got back but it never happened and we sort of lost touch. They were always busy, and id call at allthe wrong times it seemed. So i just stopped. Finally they came home, and i talked to them after a few weeks and it was a really short conversation. I waited a while, called and they didnt answer. Didnt send me to voicemail but didnt call back either. (they hardly call their best friend back.) I dont know what to do. I had a friend that has myspace, message them for me letting them know I would like to talk with them. (i dont have a myspace, & they hardly get on instant messaging.)

2007-08-16 14:59:37 · 7 answers · asked by Rae 1 in Singles & Dating

http://www.marysbridal.com/bridal/6389.htm

that is going to be my dress, but i want a longer train...anyone know how i can find a local seamstress or just asking the company to do the alterations?

2007-08-16 14:56:54 · 15 answers · asked by lilruby052001 3 in Weddings

been catching hell about a ring four six months bought it she said yes why is she still acting funny she is not as happy as i thought she would be so what next..............

2007-08-16 14:55:51 · 5 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been dating over 1.5 years and for the past 2 weeks we've been unhappy mostly my issues I suppose. Anyways he's moving up here to go to college and so i think it's stress, financies, family, etc. We kept fighting and i asked him what he wanted. We love each other so much and he wanted a break. Not a sleep with other people but not talk or see each other break to reasses everything. I said no but then said do it because it's important to him. Now I can't seem to get on. I'm still crying hours later and I want to contact him. What should I do? I don't want a break and just want to see him and help him move into his apartment! It sounded like a good idea until now and I'm clueless, is a break the right thing to do, should I call and disagree? Our current deal is I won't do anything and he'll call when he's ready but I can't do that. ....HELP!

2007-08-16 14:54:34 · 19 answers · asked by misschick87 2 in Singles & Dating

I am really shy and often times and surrounded by really outgoing people, so I tend to get overshadowed and I would never approach a guy, so how do I get a guy's attention?

2007-08-16 14:54:22 · 17 answers · asked by Rachael A 2 in Singles & Dating

Before I go to bed every night, she's the last thing I think about (only thing for that matter). When I wake up every morning she's the first thing I think about and I give her a call (first thing I do every morning). Finally, throughout the day, she's always on my mind. I'm 18 and she's 16. I'm going off to college and she's still in high school (my friend's call me a pedophile as a joke haha). Personally, I don't think she loves me as much. Sounds funny coming from a guy haha ... anyways - every time I think about her, my heart aches and I get this shocking sensation shooting up and down my left arm (no need to explain this - I'm in love with her so I know why. haha). My problem is that she never tells me how she feels about me. I only have a few instances of that happening but she's not the type say it much. What should I do? I've been trying to get her out of my head but ... it's hard and ... it hurts. I tell her how I feel all the time too but there's not much of a response.

2007-08-16 14:53:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my boy friend earlier this week becasue i didnt really like him, you know? buti liek this other guy, who knows me, but i cant get a vibe from him. i dont want to start like majorly flirting and have him just be not into it. I don't know what to do. Its a situation where, we arent close, but I've known him forever. Know what i mean? what should i do?!?!?!?!

2007-08-16 14:52:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The police came to my house tonight and wanted to know if we saw anything suspicious last night, because a home got broken into last night. I answered the door before my parents (I'm 16) and the police officer started asking me questions, and he asked if I had any friends over, and I told him that my friends Danette and Kaylee were over last night, and then he started asking all sorts of questions about them, like where they live, there phone number, last names, school they go to and other stuff like that.

Do you think that the other people on my street saw them last night and though it was them who broke into the house? Because I know they wouldn't break into a house, and now I'm worried they will be mad at me if they get in trouble. Do you think they will get in trouble, and what do I do if they are mad for giving out there information?

2007-08-16 14:49:46 · 4 answers · asked by me 1 in Friends

that guys are want " IT " all the time?

2007-08-16 14:49:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the other day, my daughter and her boyfriend got into a fight and he choked her, she calls me and tells me what happened, I immediately call the police to ask for assistance and sped home. He was arrested for assaulting her and she now blames me for ruining her life. BTW, she's 5 mos pregnant. They've had a volatile relationship from the beginning. All I was doing was acting on information she provided to me and protecting my child. Was I wrong?

2007-08-16 14:48:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yeah welll my friend and i met these two hotties at the mall and we exchanged numbers. and then they called my one friend and was like i lost sarahs (my) number. will you ask her out for me? and then she was like sarah (me) has to get to know you. and then he was like ok. tell sarah shes a mommmi. what the hell is a mommi?

2007-08-16 14:48:27 · 4 answers · asked by sarah ;) 5 in Singles & Dating

i just picked out the design for the bridesmaids dresses and i was wondering who pays for them, me or them? i wouldnt mind but if it could save me money i want to know definately....

2007-08-16 14:47:04 · 25 answers · asked by lilruby052001 3 in Weddings

There is this guy ive been wanting to never talk to again, we were really close he hurt me, and then i started talking to him again ,but he , realized hadn't changed, so i got really angry cuz of some things he said, but i want to finalize things and my friends are like NEVER talk to him again, but i want to tell him WHY and HOW he hurt me.. what should i do?

2007-08-16 14:46:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok in the last few days this guy stairs at me in class but i dont know if he likes me and well i know well because he and my friend leanna went out and he cheated on her but if he likes me and asks me out i dont want what happend to my friend to happen to me but hes cute and all and i like alot what do i do.

2007-08-16 14:45:28 · 10 answers · asked by kaitlyn0824 2 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking of getting my husband some sexy photos for our anniversary. Not nude, but in some sexy lingere. he's pretty conservitive but he loves unexpected suprises.

do you think this is a good present?
should i get him something else in addition to this?
how do I go about picking a photog?

2007-08-16 14:43:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be carefull?

2007-08-16 14:43:26 · 29 answers · asked by DO YOU LOVE ME♥*´`*•.¸★｡ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

would u rather kiss a person or hug them and why?

2007-08-16 14:43:09 · 12 answers · asked by lil miss peanut:) 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 14:41:51 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah Diaz 1 in Singles & Dating

well my bestfriend and i have new boyfriends. They both asked us to go the mall like on saturday or something, and i aksed my mom, and she said that it would be fine but i would have to convince my dad. And my dad is very strict. So how do i convince him, to let me go to the mall. and he always says that he trusts me but he doesn't trust the person im with

2007-08-16 14:39:36 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and he is 35..does this have a lot to do with it? I feel like I ALWAYS want to have sex and that he hardly ever does. He will if I initiate it but I want him to initiate it sometimes too. Help.

2007-08-16 14:38:18 · 4 answers · asked by Witchay Woman 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

do some men like it when their women run the show at home? or, do all men just let women think that, so we will shut up?

2007-08-16 14:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by wigglesmom 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

After being in a relationship with this man for roughly 4 months, I received this email from another woman suspecting she and I were seeing the same person. She was right; we confronted him and he got a massive shock.

But.. Anne (the other woman) had access to his little black book and phone and we now have a large number of girls contact details.

My question is, should we send out a brief message warning these women of this creep?

(And creep he is. He literally would leave my place after a shower and head straight to her's. He also sent us exactly the same sms messages and talked with both of us about marriage and children). I also have a child that he was getting to know before we found his sorry ar$e out.

What is the right thing to do here?

Thanks :)

PS: I should add that both Anne and I are highly decent and attractive women.

2007-08-16 14:37:59 · 16 answers · asked by MaryMaryMary 2 in Singles & Dating

My cousin (we are like sisters) and her boyfriend have been dating for a year. The 3 of us used to hang all the time (no perverted comments). We had alot of fun together. Recently my cousin cheated on him and lied to me and everyone else about alot of things concerning the relationship and her life and alot of stuff. I am a little upset with her but I realize that shes going through a hard time. Her ex is calling me alot to talk about the situation becuase he is upset as well. We have sorta become friends and I dont want to have to stop talking to him just becuase they broke up but she IS my cousin...what should I do? (F.Y.I I don not like him...I have a bf of 2 years and besides we are like bro and sis...)

2007-08-16 14:37:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

MY brother has had this one girlfriend for about 2 years. And he and her were in high school and graduated last year (2006-2007) and she went off to collage, and I got used to her being around, and I liked her alot. She was nice. And she told him that last night she went partying with another guy. So they broke up. Is it ok to cry?

2007-08-16 14:37:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm going to a waterpark wiith 2 of my friends and a group of guys i've never met my friends are good friends with them i'm nervous because i don't know any of them and my friends do. wat should i say? i don't want to seem nervous or shy. i don't have much experience with guys my friends do. how can i seem like i'm not really nervous... and know what to talk about?

2007-08-16 14:34:02 · 3 answers · asked by california 2 in Singles & Dating