Am i doing the right thing by telling him whats wrong?

Question

There is this guy ive been wanting to never talk to again, we were really close he hurt me, and then i started talking to him again ,but he , realized hadn't changed, so i got really angry cuz of some things he said, but i want to finalize things and my friends are like NEVER talk to him again, but i want to tell him WHY and HOW he hurt me.. what should i do?

Answer 1

You should tell him how you feel. It doesn't matter, in person, by phone, letter or email. I personally like doing stuff in person or by phone. I am going through a break up where she has already moved on, and it really helped me to be able to talk sometimes. We were really close and she was as least kind enough to talk with me sometimes to help with closure. I think for yourself, if you need to tell him , do it. Then you can leave each other alone but at least you'll feel better by telling him what you need to.

Answer 2

Go right out and tell him how bad he hurt you! Tell him you tried to give him a second chance but he was still just the same ol' ***! Try telling him that one day some girl is gonna come up and do the exact same thing to him, that will get him thinking and maybe he will change. But then again some people never change, only thinking of themselves and not others, go out and get a real guy.

Answer 3

If you don't tell him why and how he hurt you, he won't understand and won't learn, now will he?
So express yourself clearly.
If he has some intelligence he will think about it. If he is a jerk, he won't. Guys can be very self-serving. Most are not taught to look after other people's feelings.

After you express yourself, tell him not to bother you again, and block his number.

Answer 4

you should tell him what he did wrong so that he could at least try to correct the mistakes that he made so that he doesn't make the same ones again.

Answer 5

write a letter, without a return address.