Should I be carefull?

Question

Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be carefull?

Answer 1

i don't think you should be careful, i think you should run like hell, change your number, move and never talk to this guy again. not only does he have a temper, but he's already showing signs that he won't trust you. he just met you and he's already trying to get you to move away from your family and asking if you can have kids. ask yourself where you'll be in five years if you stay with this guy. my guess is you'll be far away from your family, trapped in a marriage to a guy with a bad temper who follows you around and takes photos of your comings and goings, probably with a few kids, so you'll feel guilty for leaving him.

cut bait and run now, girl.

Answer 2

Yes, you should be very careful !! If you have made any conclusions regarding his bizarre behavior, that should be enough for you to be convinced. Not only is he out on the edge with his picture taking (sick), but his bad temper is telling you that he can be very dangerous. You've only known this guy for a couple of months and already he is throwing marriage and children at you. Not to mention meeting his friends and family and moving clear across country. He is pushing himself on you with all these life changing propositions giving you little time to even consider what you're setting yourself up for. Frankly this guy sounds like a pathological lunatic who you shouldn't trust or be hanging around with. He has a dark side to him which is maybe the reason why you are being hesitant. Girl, you need to run as far and as fast as you can and get away from him because he will do you no good whatsoever. All the signs point for you to be very careful and not only that, you should be very afraid. Do yourself a favor and get clear away from him while you still have the chance and before it's too late!

Answer 3

Well he punched a wall and you have only known him 2 months. Your next on the list. If you move with him, your away from friends and family and completely stuck with him. Don't do it. Leave the loser, before you become a batter woman, and please don't bring a child into the situation! About that question if you can have children. I would ask that question, because I want a family. If she isn't able to, then I'd want to figure out how to adopt etc...

Answer 4

Most men that will "follow" you like that are very controlling. Also, if he punched a wall, what's to say that you won't be next. Most guys will not hit you until you are "their property" Right now he has to sink the hook, you better get out before you are... My ex boyfriend was the same way, and by the time I had lived with him for a month, he had threatened to hurt me very badly... He burned me and left many bruises on me... You need to get out...asap!!

Answer 5

I think you should be very careful, my mother was in a situation like this a long time ago, and she decided to just jump right in, and she ended up getting hurt; mentally, physically, and emotionally. As some people have already said, there are red flags up, don't jump into it too quickly, be very careful.
Good luck!

Answer 6

Run, do not walk, run to the nearest exit!

First he hits the wall and then take pictures of you while on a nature run?

He is trying to control you. Next it will be you can't talk to so and so. He will isolate you from your friends and family.

Find another guy.

TMD

PS: The link below is for "Men who batter women"

Answer 7

ok, #1 you don't have to LIVE with a person to know whether or not you love them..
to answer your question.. you really need to get out of this NOW you only have 2 months invested in this BUT he sounds like he could be dangerous.. a bad temper is a sign (not always tho) and him following you ad taking pictures of you etc.. that is wrong. get out and out NOW:) please, if you wanna talk feel FREE to message me.. i was a stalking victom and that is very scary to hear that may be what you are headed for.

Answer 8

first of all its only been 2 months. it usually takes about 3 years of living with the person to be kinda sure if you really want to change your life for a person. at this point id say that you are not to invested here so id go before you do get hurt.

Answer 9

Yes. Be careful. Sounds scary, especially with the bad temper.

Answer 10

This guy is a paranoid jealous psycho-stalker who wants to marry you so he can keep you barefoot and pregnant, while using you as his own personal punching bag-
but hey-
if that's your thing (I hope NOT!!)
then go for it!