I am really shy and often times and surrounded by really outgoing people, so I tend to get overshadowed and I would never approach a guy, so how do I get a guy's attention?
2007-08-16 14:54:22 · 17 answers · asked by Rachael A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I ain't a girl, but I'm shy enough to relate to you. Well, I just got over it sorta just not thinking about it and just letting it blurt. Just decide you'll go through with it and do it. If you ever want a boyfriend (in my case girlfriend) you have to just shut down everything for a minute so you have the courage to ask. It's not that hard if you just don't think before you do it.
Hey, you'll do fine, believe me. I'm sure.
Another way is if you can somehow find their phone number and call them to ask them out. It's easier than face to face.
2007-08-16 15:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by jakeh816 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way back when I was in school, I got a job on the school newspaper, so I would have to "interview" people. Then I prepared lists of questions, so in case I couldn't make myself talk, I could look at the list of questions and have something to start with (I was very shy too). This would work with the Annual committee, or any kind of committee or student council, anything like that, where you can go with prepared questions and ask advice from somebody you want to talk with.
2007-08-16 15:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To asker: i be responsive to precisely what you mean! whilst i grow to be a freshman (i'm a Junior now), i grow to be precisely such as you at the instant are and grow to be thinking the right comparable element. In hindsight, the main suitable advice that i provides you is to be your self. i be responsive to thats a substantial cliche, even with the incontrovertible fact that that is genuine. do no longer substitute your self. that is relatively no longer basic to grow to be "loud", while you're a shy female, and you are going to be able to desire to easily finally end up asserting some issues which you will remorseful approximately later. in simple terms save a advantageous visual charm, smile alot, and refer to human beings whilst they refer to you. good luck!
2016-10-10 09:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by goldthorpe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't compare yourself to the outgoing people. Join a club or a sport and maybe you'll find guys with the same interests. You don't have to be super loud to meet that special someone!
2007-08-16 14:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by I Like Toitles. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guy you like is outgoing then if you use lots of eye contact, he will know to make the move.
If you are shy and you like a shy guy then it wont work. So.... get your friend to tell his friend that you like him.
2007-08-16 15:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by gentlest_theirsintheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change anything about yourself, you shouldn't have to change yourself to get someones attention, start conversations with him, and I know that can be very scary, but the more you do it, the easier it gets trust me! I was very shy, I felt like a little sucluded person in an eggshell, until I started talking to more people, now I have more intresting friends!
good luck!!!
2007-08-16 15:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by figureskate_4_ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tap his shoulder and smile. Stifle the shyness and just get to know him without something pre-planned. Outgoing people are shy on the inside, and just hide it by being so fake.
2007-08-16 14:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy then you just have to wait it out until you build up your courage. The easiest thing to do is talk to someone while they are in a crowd. That should make it easier.
2007-08-16 15:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time guys will try to get your attention.
2007-08-16 14:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wave ,smile, wink, talk, just walk by him like ten times drop something is the old way.. and talking is the best way even if it just to say hi how ya doing
2007-08-16 14:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by infoman89032 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋