I got some major issues. GIRLS ADVICE WOULD GO GOOD HERE or guys but someone help!!!!!!?

Question

ok well i was with my ex gf for a year and a half and we broke up last summer and it was one of the most devistating times of my life. im a guy and ill admit i cried. Well her reason for breaking up with me was because she wanted to see other ppl. it was more of a mutual decision she didnt say i wanna dump u. but neways she ended up dating another guy and cheating on him and it seems she is back to me. its not official and she hasnt said she wants to get back together but she keeps on sending me signs so to say. i mean shes buying stuff for me taking me to games and all these other things... well if it comes back to her wanting us to be back together what should i do. i mean yes i loved her but idk if i do anymore because she hurt me so bad and she also cheated on the guy she dated after me which is a huge concern for me but i still care about her. i just dont want to get hurt and i dont know what to do.... so i ask you guys what should i do? give her another chance or move on? thanks

Answer 1

Your're right
she might still hurt you
but if you don't take that risk..you'll never know..
If you still have feelings for her then give her a second chance
people can change
and
You wouldnt want to lose her..
would you?
really there is no right or wrong thing todo
i mean..
it completley up to u
if you still love her...
then go for it
Hope i helped...good luck...u sound like a nice guy

Answer 2

I dont really know the girl so it can be a tricky situation. Some think that once a cheater always a cheater, but you may want to give her a chance. If she does want to get back together, and you really want to also...I think you should give it another chance. Have casual dates to start out with and always remember in the back of your mind what she is capable. You can change for the one you truely love...so hopefully it works out well for you and your girl.

Answer 3

i hope you move on. of course, we don't know all the details, but it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship - because of these points: you never got over her, remaining faithful or at least hopeful while she slept around, cheated for a while. she has the "upper hand" in the relationship. buys your devotion, comes back to you because she can take advantage of the fact that you're in love with her. and also because she may just be with you until she finds the "bigger, better deal".
you deserve a healthy, equal relationship.
that's why i say move on.

Answer 4

Well it really comes down to you. How do you feel about this whole thing. If you feel that you can forget everything that she did to hurt you, and move on happily, then you should go back out with her. But if you feel like you can't forget it and when you do think of it, that it feels like all that stuff happened yesterday, then you really should move on. take care.

Answer 5

i think everyone gets a second change. but don't try and start right back off where you left off, and don't get so attached that if you see signs of her cheating on you [as its now in her record] or her losing interest it won't hurt you as bad to let her go again.

Answer 6

i wouldnt go back to her she is just useing you once again she is not woth getting hurt over agian.........she needs to grow up....you are better off with out her tell her you dont want any more stuff from her and that you are over her u dont need her in your life

Answer 7

You have to ask yourself if you can trust her. If not, you're going to get hurt again.

Answer 8

move on if she cheated on the new guy he'll cheat on you too. she wants to have her cake and eat it too.