I really like this guy. I've been crazy about him since I met him (a few weeks ago). I know he likes me too, but he does not makes any moves or takes the first step. I dont want to just sit around waiting for him to make a move. I want to let him know I like him but I dont want him to think I'm desperate or something like that. Guys usually take the first step with me so I have no idea how to do this. I dont want him to think that I;m easy or something like that. I just want him to know I like him, and I;m really interested in him, and then if he decides to do something about it then great. But if he doesnt at least I'll know it wasnt because he thoughht I wasnt into him or something like that...
I seeing him again this weekend and it would be probably the last time I see him b/c we met at work but I wont be working there anymore. Thats why I'm kinda in a hurry. Because I really, really like him... (I'm 18. He's 21)
Please I really need your advise on this. Thanks beforehand...! =)
2007-08-16 17:56:13 · 4 answers · asked by SB2217 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should just go up to him and be like "Hey here is my number(have it written on a napkin/paper b4 hand) give me a call so we can hang out sometime" and just leave. Do not look back at him and just wait to see if he calls if he doesn't call you with in 2-4 days that means he is not interested... lets cross are fingers and hope he calls..
2007-08-16 18:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by thedim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just being careful, and trying to take it slow. If he wont make any moves, you have to make them. If you're still a teen, it's no wonder he's being careful. COncentrate on just becoming friends with him. Then maybe in two years or more, flirt with him, try to convince him to be your bf.
2007-08-17 01:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is a grown man. if he hasn't asked you out already then i don't think he likes you in that way, but he might do, you should go up to him (in private) and tell him that u like him or that you have a crush on him. if he returns the love then he is interested in you, and he will probably ask you out right then. but if he doesn't ask you out after he told you that he liked you, then you might as well ask him out. if he says he doesn't say he likes you then offer to just be friends.
2007-08-17 01:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by this is only a test 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say goodbye give him a big hug
and say "I'll miss you, call me sometime".
2007-08-17 01:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋