So . . . he is always talking to me, I mean, we're really good friends. We sit by each other in class and he is always flirting, but he is known to flirt with anything, but he barely dates. I'm soooooooooooo confused!!! When I say that I'm ugly, or that I look like crap, he always says that I look great or that I'm not ugly in anyway. But that doesn't help because thats what best friends do.
He has a girl friend and he confessed to me that he doesn't really like her.
He is always asking me if I like him as more then a friend. I never know what to say so I say no, but if he actually likes me, he will think that I'm out of his league. It's so weird.
Please, please help me!! I am in a major crisis! Some guy that I don't like just asked me out, and I don't know if I should say no and show my friend that I'm still avalible or say yes and make him jealous. Answer a.s.a.p!!
2007-08-16 17:54:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The next time he asks you if you like him more than a friend say yes and see his reaction.
I know that the "I don't want to ruin our friendship" card keeps popping up but, if you really like him I would ask him out and see what happens! Or you could tell him about this other guy asking you out and ask him what you should do? Or you could even ask him what he thinks of you over msn then if he thinks you are really good looking or something like that, ask him out!
I wouldn't try the making him jealous plan because the guy you don't like's feelings would be hurt and he might go pyscho, I would'nt risk it if I were you!
Good Luck :)
2007-08-16 18:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go out with a guy you don't like, or don't think you could like, for any reason, but especially not to try to make someone jealous.
If the guy in class flirts with everyone, well, i am sorry, but he flirts with EVERYONE. Just like he flirts with you.
And he has a girlfriend but is saying her doesn't really like her behind her back ??!!?? run, don't walk, away from this creep.
2007-08-17 01:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u make him jealous... that's dumb. just go for it see what happens. Best friends sometimes make the best person to date. Take me for example. This guy and I were best friends for 5 years and now we are engaged and very much in love.
2007-08-17 01:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Amayah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend, leave him alone until he gets rid of her. If he likes you, let him show it. Don't fish for compliments either, it makes you look desperate. If someone you like asks you out, go, your still single. Don't put your life on hold for some guy who has a girlfriend, not worth it at all, not even close. If he'll cheat on her, he'll cheat on you.
2007-08-17 01:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Phoebe Finch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no to the guy you don't like and ask your friend out. It sounds like he really likes you, but doesn't want to mess up a friendship.
2007-08-17 01:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with a guy just to make another one jealous. thats just dumb. dont just think about urself think about the other guy's feelings too! :D
2007-08-17 01:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you make him jealous? He adores you. Give the guy a chance.
2007-08-17 00:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by Magic Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just talk to him......say that you need to talk serious...and say your feelings to him and also tell him to tell his feelings about you. I think this is the best.It has been experienced with my friend and now they talk to eachother alot. Its great.
2007-08-17 01:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell this guy you like someone else & see what he says about it.
2007-08-17 01:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by mustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont say you're ugly... he will think you're fishing for compliments...
guys also like confident girls, see how they always go for "popular" - "confident" - "show off " girls.
im not saying be bitchy, be confident and he will like you...
:)
2007-08-17 00:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Kendi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋