usually my mom is very supportive but she just cant stand my boyfriend.yes ,i know there r some problems with his family,that she does not like.but thats not his fault.even he dose not know about them..she just want me to stay away from him.but i really love him.i tried everything.but...it is effecting her health... i cant see my mom in this state..and i cant live without him...what should i do?what can i do?plz help me..
2007-08-16 21:28:08 · 11 answers · asked by windy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
listen to your heart. i think family comes first in your LIFE. just tell your b/f to go and talk with your mom and tell him to show your mom what does you mean to him and still your mom do not agree. then tell your b/f to ask to your mom what dose she want and if your mom said him to leave you then tell your b/f to reply your mom that he will wait for you to prove your mom wrong. just do whatever your mom want you guys to do in a month your mom will realize she is doing something wrong with your LIFE
BEST OF LUCK
2007-08-19 11:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Saawariya Aka Loser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, for one we witness michael getting bashed enough and don't want to inflict it on everyone else. If i see an overly repeated Jonas brothers question I don't say "eww they suck." It's just when the same questions are flooded atleast 10-15 times a day i suggest they search first before asking, since there are several pages of answers. Plus you can't really be an MJ fan without taking some patience to learn about him because people try and bash us and we also want to know the truth. Any"hater" of any celebrity or person in general usually just say things they hear from tabloids/rumours or things they /want/ to hear, instead of actually finding something out. And yes since Michael is such a great person and kind and giving, he influences us! Some of his videos are so strong, like in Earth Song when there was a kids arm reaching for a tree and it pulled away as a chainsaw quickly bolted in front of it to cut down the tree. I always remember that scene...
2016-05-20 20:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents always think and work to the best interest of their children.
Love is mad and never look at the situation from a wholistic point of view.
Parents also want their child to get married and live a happy married life. In your case, they see a clear problem in the boys family and thats why they are reluctant and I am sure it must be problem which is serious in nature.
Marriage is a decision which can affect your entire life. So you have to be absolutely sure the person with whom you are going to marry is clear in all respect.
So, I propose that, you go as per your parents wish. I am sure they will find you a person which will keep you happy all throughout your life. Focuss on your studies, career, personality. Ultimately these are things that matter the most in life and not these momentary crushes.
2007-08-16 23:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by Akshay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r in Marriage age take ur mom in ur confidence and Assure her that u r now grown up and know u can make correct decisions .
Convince her as these decision should not be taken hard n fast ..Give time to ur relation so ur mom can trust u
2007-08-16 21:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by Fadoo Reply 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear i know its very difficult to do anything in this situation. my advice is that if u hv studied ur boy friend and u r 100 % sure that he is a right person then u shud convince ur mom that he is a good friend of yours and he wont do anything wrong with you and u shud also say that ur mom should trust u that u wud never do anything outside ur limit. if she dont understnd u then i shud advice u that cut ur relation with ur bf bcoz u may get any other more than him but u wud hurt ur mothers sentiments. he thinks best of urs.
anyway leave everything on god and time. just chill out and keep smiling.
2007-08-16 21:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by alifetimefriend 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really say your mother is correct. Mother always advise
for the betterment of your future. follow mother's advise.
Boy friend mind would have been read by your mother
or she must have approached somebody about his character.
Keeping all the points of demerits your mother would have
put a break in your relationship with your boyfriend.
2007-08-16 22:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask urself these questions---
who loves u more?
who cares u more?
who gave u all education and make u good person which can be loved and liked by others?
is my mother foolish person?
if u have answers about these question, there is no need to find out solution for ur problem.
2007-08-16 22:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Siddhant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand your mom, You can have boyfriend but not mom.
2007-08-17 19:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r in marriagable age, go and marry him. all problems with some tensions will go away. and if yu r too yung to marry--- wait for the right time
2007-08-16 21:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by bhups 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why she dont approve, find out 1st & then try to please her , convince her, know who r close to yr mom any relation or her friend, and ask them hpw u can convince yr mother, then u may request them to convince too !
2007-08-16 23:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by JAMES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋