She/he is so hot, they say they are in love with you and reveal the truth about their past life. They were a hardcore pornstar until last night, given up to startup a new life with you, they love you and they really mean it. As for you, you are a loser, no job, living on welfare, low education and CV of jobs u keep getting fired from for being such a berk. But this person is madly in love with you, they want to marry you next week and are almost in tears over how happy they are they found you. You then realise you watched your partner last night in an online film and know this person has been with over 100 people in a verity of sorded ways. But then, this person really cherishes you, is willing to be reborn as your spouse and you can look forward to millionaire life. It is the making of your life as well as theirs if you marry. Can you ignore the past vile and marry? Or would you pass it up knowing all ur mates have seen their porn films too?
2007-08-16 21:22:55 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I wouldn't marry one.
2007-08-16 21:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
I wouldn´t be able to be with someone who had had so much sex with other people and also someone who had been seen by so many people all over the world!
Also, nothing would be new to her that you would do in the bedroom because she has done everything and anything with the other porn stars with huge penises.
I don´t think porn stars can really make love because they are so used to doing sexual things for a job.
I am sure they can fall in love with someone (everyone is capable of that) but it all depends on whether you can bear the thought of what she did in the past. If you can, maybe you both can start a fresh together and leave your troubled pasts behind. If you are really in this situation and it´s not just a hypothetical story that you are telling, then I recommend you get to know the girl in question first, and very well, because you will need to be absolutely sure that she is what you want in your life.
The fact that you say you are a loser and living on welfare may suggest that you are feeling desperately lonely and useless and are clinging on to the first person that gives your attention and affection. And if she is so well off and successful why does she want to be with someone who lives off welfare and cannot support themselves? Maybe this girl wants to save you and she thinks that she will do something good in Gods eyes that will pardon her for her sexual pursuits.
I hope that this advice helps. It is a rare situation because most porn stars marry another porn star because they understand oneanother and what the job entails.
In any case, I wish you all the luck in the world, and hope that you find your true love! And if it is her, then all the best to you both.
2007-08-16 21:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anja M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A porn star wouldn't have the values, loyalty or commitment I want in a relationship. Hell no, if I was single I would not ever consider marrying a porn star. Maybe a guy who's into swinging or an open relationship would be more suited to a person like that.
2016-05-20 20:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!
Since I am a loser, with no job, living on welfare and a low education, rather than pinning all my hopes for the future on a porn star, I'd worry about doing something to fix my own life first. I'd be going into the marriage with NOTHING and if it didn't work out, dependent on him. A porn star is not the best person to hitch my wagon to (and what is his problem that he would want to spend his life with a complete loser as you described in this scenario? He's got issues!)
The porn stars TRULY making millions after expenses and planning for their futuresare few and far between (and having a relative that was in the industry and knowing that most male porn stars are not living the millionaire lifestyle and some have major drug issues makes me a bit more realistic). Friends seeing his films are the least of my problems
2007-08-16 21:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Dutchability 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a problem with it if he continued working in porn while we were together; I know I would be horribly jealous, and probably give up the relatioship.
But since he is giving it up to be with me, and we're madly in love with each other (in this fantasy world), he'll never see any of those women again, and he doesn't have any STDs, then yes, I could live with it and marry him. (By the way, money doesn't matter in the face of true love.)
Besides, it's better to marry a porn star than a player. For a porn star, sex is a way to make a living. But for a player, sex is just a hobby! O_o Most porn stars are cleaner than your average joe; they get tested every single week, and the majority use condoms. How many regular guys do THAT these days? All the time here on Y!A I read about girls complaining that their guys won't use condoms. Porn stars KNOW the importance of protection.
2007-08-16 21:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Riven Liether 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes, If your as smitten about her as she is about you and she is willing to give up things for you to make it work I think you may be on to a winner there. As to your past employment history now would be a good time to return the favour and start to focus on a career that you will be happy with. Shes been up front and honest with you which is always a good start but I would hold the marraige off for a while and make sure its what you both want. If your friends can't deal with having seen her in films thats their problem your not intending (if you are) spending the rest of your days with them.
Go with your heart nnot whats happened in the past.
If you do decide to go ahead with the relationship I wish you all the very best of luck and happiness.
btw, your gonna have some good nights ahead!
2007-08-16 21:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by mlud12000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At first i said hell no till u i read of question then agreed only if she had no std's. Though cause i'd rather be a loser, no job, living on welfare, low education and CV of jobs u keep getting fired from for being such a berk then die of Aids
2007-08-16 21:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know honestly, I would probably give it a try, but I would wait a little longer than a week to get married, knowing that she is a porn star tells you that she has learned some really good tricks throughout her career. It worked for Ice T, I'm sure if you are trusting enough and really believed that she cherished you, you could get married and live a happy life.
2007-08-16 21:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your respective financial states should not be an issue if you are any kind of decent human being. So that is not relevant to this question.
As for whether I would marry a porn star, a person's career does not define a person. What she would be giving you in marriage is her heart and soul. That is something she does not give to her work. A man who is secure and confident in himself could handle this relationship if he truly loved the woman. A man who is insecure and takes the moral high ground could not.
2007-08-16 21:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Stu147 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The public would forget in a short time. In porn flicks they are not concentrating on the faces. If this person and I were happy together I think I would give it a try. If other people didn't like it, they could look the other way while I sped away in my Mercedes.
2007-08-16 21:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on you... if her past bothers you or not.
And if you are one of those who get affected by thoughts of others around you...then HELL NO she is not the one for you.
And if you are the person who will ever bring up her past in any quarrel or fights , then you are the guy for her.
Be in a porn star or hot...every human who is made of flesh and blood as emotional and feelings too. If you think you are not capable of putting her past behind on not bring it up in any way or situation....then you might leave this person now itself than to demolish her as a person on whole in future.
Love should be selfless. So you decide.
2007-08-16 23:21:10 · answer #11 · answered by priyasham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋