Idont know what to do, my marriage is doing bad just because my mother in law,Help!?

Question

Hi Iam 20 years old have a 6 month baby, my husband is 23, anyway I know my husband for 2 years now, we lived together for about 3 months then he moved in with me, the thing is that I wanted to met his mother after we knew each other for a while! but she was always making excuses, so I stop, then I got pregnant when I was 3 months she finally said to go over to her house when we got there I was nervous, we seat and eat everybody in the table were talking but they never said one word to me, not even how was my pregnancy going, I felt pretty offended I went home thinking that they didnt want me, I told my
husband how I felt he told me that hes mom changed since she got married to another man, his step- father and that all she does is listen to him, and never care about him anymore! since my daughter was born they havent give her a thing! and she's her first grand daughter, then his step fathers son lives there with his GF there so fake,my mother in law talkingabout me with the gf

I can not believe how they're, they always want to come between this marriage, they think that Im the bad person, cause whenever is the weekend and I dont feel like going to there house they think that I control him, but the truth is that my husband never wants to go there if Iam not ther with him, He loves me more then anything and I do too, she. The sep father has son and my mother in law is always talking to him so nice and to his Gf too, she treat him better then my husband and she talks to her more then me! everytime I go there I go thinking that things will be better, Im always nice to them, but they just dont want to open up
with me! now I dont even want to see them anynmore, only my mother in law cause I believe she has the right to see her grand dauhgter but the other people I dont care! Do you think I should see them, after them not giving my dauhter a thing?

they never want to comet to my house cause we live with my parents, and what I hate about my husband is that he never talks to her, he never tell her how he feel after all this years, they're just too
apart from each other! I dont know what to do! Help me please!

Answer 1

You did not marry any of your in laws, only your husband, you or them are not compelled to even see or like you ! Discus this situation with your husband and get on with your life together, forget the in laws

Answer 2

Tha Longer U Make Her Wait to adventure those issues Tha extra She'll be Going in the back of Ur back to Do issues u Dont want hur to if U want An Open relationship Wit Yur Daughter,enable Her adventure those issues Early As she would be able to

Answer 3

Grow up - you are a mom and a married women focus on that worry about them, and if your marriage is doing bad its noones fault but the people in the marriage dear- and dont care what anyone thinks its a bad trait to pass on to your daughter one day - plus kill them with kindness

Answer 4

You haven't mentioned any issues with your husband.

Get over the concept that your in-laws have to like you and accept the fact that they don't. It's sad, but it's not your problem unless you make it your problem. Trust me, they are not losing sleep over it.

Answer 5

Gal, you should so not let them get to you --- you should so feel sorry for them!!! You have your hubby's support, so leave that miserable woman alone. Maybe pray for her because she has a very weak character. I know it hurts, but they are the miserable ones. If it still bothers you, let your hubby tell his mom about how he feels ( about her ignoring him, not you.). All the best dear.

Answer 6

Focus on your child and husband... So long as they are happy with you and you with them.... leave out the rest of the world.

Answer 7

Best thing that happened for my marriage was her mothers' death. Of course, she's just like her.

Answer 8

Who cares, you dont need them,.

Answer 9

you can talk to her about it.