i would like to know how a married woman hurt her husband and children over a .2. month fling with a .19. year old when she.s.48. her husband is a good man now after.25. years of marrage there going to get divorced over it he.s hurt very badley over what he thought was his life to him she was a very loving mother to as well a good woman he.s hurting very bad over it as to what she had did with this .19. year old .
2007-08-16 21:06:26 · 13 answers · asked by singlemale_2711 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is sad to read really. a woman that age of.48 .years old fooling around with a .19. year old man as you put it is maling a fool out of her self and beliving everything he say.s to her he is making her look like a fool and her husband is hurt over the time. they have been married..25. years is not no short time and he trusted her many have both men as well women as well nither who has been married that long deservies to be hurt like that.and children either she only made a fool out of herself pal in time it willcatch up with her over what she as well this othr.19. year old has did. god will see to it he knows no limit on matters like that i feel sorry for him . loving her and being done like that is not good for him as well the children either she. lacks feelings toward other.s starting with her children not to meation her husband . she is a very sorry person do treat thm like that i hope they .husband and children will be ok as for her she lacks morals as a mother and a wife to degrade he self like that she.s degraded her family and the children have to be the ones who sufer from what she did with friends as well school children if there in school my opion?
2007-08-16 21:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A couple of possibilities
1)The attention. What person (male or female) would not be flattered by receiving attention from someone half your age? If the person you are staring at is younger than you, in some way you can convince yourself you aren't getting older (for a moment).
2)Impending mid-life crisis (when 50 or menopause is staring you in the face)
3) Sex. Just part of her character to be unfaithful and although the husband saw a loving wife, she was always just a skank
4) Age is only a number and the 19 year old was more in touch with her emotions/feelings. She felt more with him than she did with her husband
Take your pick. While picking also consider that if this were reversed (48 year old man with a 19 year old girl) that situation is more common. Just like the 19 year old boy is making a fool out of her, a 19 year old girl also makes a fool out of a 48 year old man but people probably wouldn't think twice about that situation).
2007-08-16 21:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Dutchability 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think she thinks that she can take back some of the things she suppose to miss during her marriage. Like youth, attention, feeling hot. Perhaps she thinks if she holds on to that relationship she can be young again and start all over from the beginning. Technically she is wrong. Neither her body and lack of hormones nor her emotional and logical status will allow her to go on any longer in this relationship with a young guy.
Why do young guys find older women attractive? The experience, more stable apperance (you know breasts,hips have already taken their shape) and more logical approaches to some conditions (like expecting nothingelse more but sex) and money so on. Just like their Mom ha?!
I really feel sympathy for her because when everything is over she will be drafted in to a serious loneliness.
2007-08-16 21:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ardelia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no good reason but like your soon to be ex wife they never really think about consequence of there actions. Then when they do it's to late and they end up losing everything. You figure your ex not only lost you but the respect of your children your family and your friends. Seems like a very high price for a short time of fun........
2007-08-16 23:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so she is rich ? Well the movie Actor Clark Gable when he was around 20 married a woman that was 40 it did not last but they were married for maybe a year or two. one never knows
2016-05-20 20:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfishness and the morals of an alley cat. That is the combo trait of a cheater.
2007-08-16 21:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young men are easily impressed by older women and the experience they have in life in general..plus they have vigor and spunk at that age and can be taught like a dog to do what you want them to do!!!
I personally like older men, younger men are, well- immature!
2007-08-16 21:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by contessa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to Kelly up there, this lady is the one who had the affair...not the husband! and as far as brief goes, sure, he should divorce her, lol, even if it was just once!!! why would she do this? because she don't know how to control herself...and is no good...=(...for some dumb reason I think some cheat because they think their spouse will forgive them...time to make a stand people! don't put up w/ it!
2007-08-17 00:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why? Because she has either gone mad (insane I mean) or she is being used by that 19 year old guy.
2007-08-16 21:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by sv 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go get with a stripper. or go to craigslist dot org. for you local city and look up the erotic section. and mabey forget about it a lil
2007-08-16 21:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by candi o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋