i need honest answers on this please, my wife found out i was seeing this married woman .5. years ago from the womans husband i was doing missionary work . at that present time my i was.19. this married woman was.47. and married with children and a husband my wife caught me posting question.s on here throught her mother. one day my wife called this woman.s husband and he told her. my wife everything that had went on . i was married when i went on my mission it was.5. years ago am i still libaled for well having a sexual affair with this married woman it was.5. years ago . and she was always comming on to me and yes i did hate her husband and i really could not stand her. his wife . that.s why i did have sex with this cheap whore she was older than me. isnt she the one more at fault than me it would seem so after allshe was the one making all the moves on me and it.s a very long story isnt there a time limit on this where i cant get into no trouble over this married woman she a whore?
2007-08-16 22:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i was a missionary for the church yes i am a mormon my copanion watched for us to let us know when he was comming in his car than my copanion also was with her in a sexual way as well to .fact ..
2007-08-16 22:31:32 · update #1
hey whimp why dont you have as much gull as your wife and stop calling this woman a whore . did you as well your so called copanion call her that while you was doing her in well as you put it you had sex with her by law you as well her can get in trouble you posted that your wife found out from this site do you not think she isnt yet doing it and printing it out for a legal matter . pal you havesown . not reap what you did . man your sorry as well low as well to have done what you posted as well your copanion as well just my honest opion ?
2007-08-17 20:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age, maturity, and lapse of time means squat after all this time. The fact is you broke your vows, lied by omission and hid the fact from her for 5 long years. No wonder your wife is ticked.
Broadcasting your feelings about this couple and calling the woman names and disparaging her reputation on the Internet does not clear you of the fact that you did something with another woman behind your wife's back, and that she had to hear about from a third party, which is just as good as a slap in the face.
In fact posting highly disparaging information on the Internet about a specific person is grounds for legal issues. Cease immediately and prey that it too doesn't come back to bite you on the butt. If it gets back to the couple in question, as your wife may have already just tipped them off about the postings. You will be fully in the wrong since you just posted that you were past the age of consent and posting highly inflammatory personal remarks.
I would sit down with your wife ASAP and confess everything leaving out no detail, because by your own actions you have now created doubt in your wife's mind about how many other "indiscretions" and white lies you didn't think worth mentioning over the years. The fist time it happened could be forgiven based upon your youth, hormones, lack of judgment, loneliness, and gullibility. Repeated acts were just signs of stupidity and borrowing trouble you didn't need.
By the lack of remorse you shown from the story above you have demonstrated in the most basic way a huge lack of maturity and concern for your wife's feelings and the possible danger you may have inadvertently put her in. Statistically for every man the woman slept with her partner may have slept with half a dozen more and so on. Who knows what may have been passed onto your wife without her knowledge when you got home.
It's stupid to be worrying about placing blame this late in the game, when you should now be focusing on keeping your marriage intact.
2007-08-16 23:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by kris_1492 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are consequences to adultery. It may have taken awhile, but you are now discovering them. You really have no right to complain. Things like this have a way of coming out into the open. All of our actions have consequences. They can be good or bad. The repercussions from cheating cannot possibly be good.
Also, I find it difficult to have sympathy for your situation since you don't sound in the least bit repentent for your actions. You are blaming someone else for what you did too. It doesn't make you look any better to criticize the other woman. Actually it makes you look worse.
Another thing is...the "5 years ago" that you keep brining up doesn't give me any sympathy for you either. All it means is that you kept a lie from your wife for 5 years. Again, it makes you look worse.
Accept your consequences like a man.
2007-08-16 23:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be mean but you still sound rather immature...
Of course your wife is going to be angry. You hid this from her for a very long time, and relationships are about trust. I know because I've done a similar thing and been on your end as well.
I think you kind of have to put yourself into her shoes. She may not be angry that it happened, just sad that you didn't tell her straight off the bat.
I hope this didn't happen while you were together...this could crush a relationship.
Also, as an ex-mormon...what are you doing in that church when deep down it seems you really don't believe in it.
2007-08-16 22:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Katina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got caught and she's a "cheap whore"???????????
Well you certainly liked it well enough didn't you? What's that make you?
Your double standard is laughable. What's funnier is your like a little kid going "she made me do it". GROW UP, it's part of being a MAN. So be a MAN and take responsibilty for your own actions and behavior. Next time you go on a "mission" stop thinking with your penis. You wanted a honest answer? Well you got one.
2007-08-16 22:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a very serious problem!!
and.....it's not the one your thinking about!!!
5 years later, you still think(for want of a better word)...that she was a 'whore'....and that makes it o.k.
Plus, if I am to believe you were a missionary?
Sounds like you have never repented one slight moment!
Oh! because she made all the moves....right.
ALL THAT YOU EVER BELIEVED IN= A HUGE LIE.!
You have something psychologically wrong with you!!!
2007-08-16 22:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 22:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blaming others for your wrong deeds and making excuses is not justification And justifying your crimes because other people also commit crimes is not logical.
You did the crime you should expect to do the time. Stop making excuses like kindergarten kid.
2007-08-16 22:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋